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    dessertgirl    May 23, 2010  

    My fiance and I decided against tuxes since we are having a garden wedding and they seemed too formal. I thought we could just have the guys wear black suits with coordinating ties. But now I hear that black suits are only appropriate for funerals. Is that true? Should I have them wear dark-ish but not totally black suits? My colors are pink and brown, and I definitely do not want brown suits, but would a dark navy or charcoal suit be ok? I'm just confused because I see wedding photos that look like the groom is wearing a black suit, but maybe it's just really dark and photographing as black. What do all you bees think? Thanks!

     
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    Miss PumpkinPenguin    September 5, 2010   NC

    i wouldn't have thought that at all.  my fiance and his guys are wearing black suits with pretty ties in our wedding colors. 

     
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    Blueshoes2    June 2010   PA

    I don't think they're only appropriate for funerals at all!  I just always thought they were a little less formal than a tux.

     
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    ninjadarling    February 9, 2008  

    I say wear them anyway. People will always have objections and little tidbits to say. I don't think theres anything wrong with them, they're justa a less formal version of a tux :)

    Good Luck

     
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    cardigan    January 7, 2011   Austin, TX

    I never would have even thought of that! I think black suits are perfectly fine!

     
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    Future Mrs. Martin    August 21, 2010   London Ontario Canada

    That's ridiculous a black suit is CLASSIC!

    Go for it!

     
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    Magenta    July 31, 2010   Springfield MA- Wedding in PR

    forget about what people said about the black suit. go with your guts and with what you like   =)

     
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    dessertgirl    May 23, 2010  

    Thanks all! I thought it was really weird too, like am I color blind or something because I see all these photos with grooms in black suits! Maybe it's an older generation thing, because it was really my fiance's mom who raised the issue first. I just think black suits will go better with everything else than some gray or navy color. Thanks!!!

     
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    noritake22    March 31, 2011   Seattle

    My FI and his guys will all be wearing black tuxes. I don't think that black tuxes would be something that is worn at a funeral. I agree with the other posters. Go with what you want, and forget about what other people are saying about it. You know your vision; they don't.

     
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    thatelisagirl    April 2, 2011   Perth, Western Australia

    No way, Black suits all the way! I think black suits look great. all of my firends who are married so far have had the guys in black suits.

     
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    knikolle    March 28, 2010  

    We also had a daytime garden wedding & went with black tuxes with a tie in one of our wedding colors.  Black suits/tuxes are always a classic!

     
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    The guys in my wedding are wearing black suits, white shirts, aqua ties & red bouts. 

     
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    finnaroo    August 7, 2010   DC (living in nyc now)

    we're having our groomsmen wear black suits too, partially because they already own black suits, and if they don't, they'll be buying something totally rewearable. totally not just for funerals! men wear black suits alllll the time for work or other fancy occasions

     
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    jaylovessteez    September 19, 2010   CA

    I think we are going with all black suits and red ties....

    I dont think its too funeralish..

     
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    Dancy905    February 5, 2010  

    We picked out the guys tuxes last weekend and they're black, so I say go for it. Our wedding is pretty light in color and summery too.

    I never heard the "no black to a wedding" thing until I saw it on this site. I've always worn black cocktail dresses to weddings.

     
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    Mojito    June 26, 2010   Denver

    Like Dancy905, our wedding is summery (outdoor garden wedding in June) and the guys will be wearing black tuxes.  My FI even wants to wear a black bowtie!  But I think black suits would be appropriate too.  I've never heard that men would only be allowed to wear them to funerals.  Dessertgirl, you're probably right that it's a generation thing, but I certainly wouldn't let it bother me.

     
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    Kingcake    04/09/2011  

    That is totally redonk.

     

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