Post # 1
For the past year I have been telling/asking/pleaing with my Fiance , parents, Father-In-Law, etc. to help me get as much as we can done before the holidays start rolling in.. there responce we have plenty of time… now my mom ask to put wedding planning on hold until after the holidays… ummmm what! I cant do it all on my own… just stressing…
On top of that for some reason just about all of my venues the person that i meet with in the beginning has for some reason left the company.. I am very into needing a connection with people and now i am dealing with a bunch of strangers…. BLAH
any other january brides just feel like they are about to go crazy.. please save a room for me in the nut house.
Post # 3
@veboone I am really sorry your family has put you in this postion. My mom has aksed that this long holiday weekend if we could not talk about any wedding stuff. She said she is tired of it and maybe we could pick back up in a few weeks. Whatever!! Maybe if you make a list of things that can wait and work on them by yourself then hope they help later.
I also feel like I am headed to the nut house. Last week I went to confirm with my menu with the vendor and her email came back so I called and some guy was telling me they don’t honor her contract and prices have gone up on everything! hahahahaha Yea, no. So after dealing with an angry bride I talked to the manager ater a few days of waiting and he assured me the idot I was talking too had no clue what he was talking about. He een gave me 250$ off. Fear the bride!!
Hang in there, we all go though rough patches. Untill I found the bee’s a few weeks ago I thought I was the only one. Take a deep breath, it’s going to be ok!
Post # 4
@veboone: First let me say hello Date-Twin! (I love finding date-twins).
Im so sorry you are feeling stressed. Its unfortunate your family doesn’t understand that you really need their help right now.
Maybe you can try to get to know the new people at your venue to feel more comfortable- set up some meetings with them.
I am actually right there with you- due to a possibility of some invitations being lost in the mail, and many other details…I am feeling very stressed and have started getting dizzy spells. :-/
For all of us I’m sure things will work themselves out..