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I let myself cool down for a few min, I almost posted out of rage lol

I have/had 4 BM's... I swear, I should've only had 1.. MOH has been the best this whole time! She's given me opinions (not critically), asked me many questions about the wedding, got her dress when I first gave them all the choices, and moved across the country and now lives a couple hours away! Ok, that last one wasn't for ME, but it's an added plus :)

The other 3... well one is my sister - hasn't asked anything about the wedding, hasn't gotten a dress, and oh, probably isn't even coming to the wedding (I'll know for sure within a week). The other 2 are FI's sisters - one hasn't gotten her dress, wants a dress shorter than the other 2 that have dresses, doesn't respond to messages... and the other FI sister is the co-MOH.. pregnant (not a downside of being a BM but very moody/flakey & uses that as her excuse for everything) & has called me rude on multiple occasions for me asking her to get a dress & just thinking about moving the bachelorette party to a different date.. she's basically making me not want to have a bachelorette party.
*Note* There's less than 6 weeks to the wedding. I assumed they'd all have dresses by now.
 

Sigh... I kind of wish FI & I had just chosen 1 person to stand next to us. The 1 person that we'd know would be there for us. I think I might just forget the bachelorette party (which I'm basically planning, pregnant BM planned a bridal shower) and go 2 hrs away to hang out with MOH by ourselves!

Anyone else have so much drama to the point that they regret asking ladies to be their BM's?

:-(

Yeah, I already have. I told my sister & the other one about 2-3 wks ago that if they don't ORDEr a dress by the 12th of this month, unfortunately, they won't be able to be in the wedding party. The FSIL that doesn't have a dress said she should be ordering it this week, who knows. And my sister never responded, I'm pretty sure she's avoiding it cause she's not coming. Would have been nice to know like months ago!! At this point, I don't really care. As long as my best friend MOH is there, I think I'll be happy :-) And of course my FI!! lol

I would ask the pregnant MOH to step down if she didn't already have a dress & It's less than 6 weeks away. Oh well. I try not to bring stuff up to her, but when I have to, crap hits the fan :-P