- 8 years ago
- Wedding: October 2010
I let myself cool down for a few min, I almost posted out of rage lol
I have/had 4 BM’s… I swear, I should’ve only had 1.. Maid/Matron of Honor has been the best this whole time! She’s given me opinions (not critically), asked me many questions about the wedding, got her dress when I first gave them all the choices, and moved across the country and now lives a couple hours away! Ok, that last one wasn’t for ME, but it’s an added plus 🙂
The other 3… well one is my sister – hasn’t asked anything about the wedding, hasn’t gotten a dress, and oh, probably isn’t even coming to the wedding (I’ll know for sure within a week). The other 2 are FI’s sisters – one hasn’t gotten her dress, wants a dress shorter than the other 2 that have dresses, doesn’t respond to messages… and the other Fiance sister is the co-MOH.. pregnant (not a downside of being a Bridesmaid or Best Man but very moody/flakey & uses that as her excuse for everything) & has called me rude on multiple occasions for me asking her to get a dress & just thinking about moving the bachelorette party to a different date.. she’s basically making me not want to have a bachelorette party.
*Note* There’s less than 6 weeks to the wedding. I assumed they’d all have dresses by now.
Sigh… I kind of wish Fiance & I had just chosen 1 person to stand next to us. The 1 person that we’d know would be there for us. I think I might just forget the bachelorette party (which I’m basically planning, pregnant Bridesmaid or Best Man planned a bridal shower) and go 2 hrs away to hang out with Maid/Matron of Honor by ourselves!
Anyone else have so much drama to the point that they regret asking ladies to be their BM’s?