(Closed) bm let down. i’m not a “board-venter” but here it is… :-(

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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988 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I can sort of relate. I am having my two sisters and my two friends as my BMs my two sister being my MOHs they are both under 18 and are currently on vacation and wont be back till 2 weeks before the wedding, and my other two BM’s havnt stepped up to offer to throw me a bachelorette party 🙁 I know technically they aren’t supposed to I guess I am just a little hurt that they havn’t even mentioned it. As some bees told me before though BM’s are there to be with you on your day,  you can’t really expect them to be super involved in the whole process. It does suck though that your BM is more interested in her wedding, and doesn’t get how rude she is actually being!

Post # 5
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1088 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Hmmm I can relate. My brother is getting married 3 months after me and it’s hard for them to help me with mine when they’re focused on theirs. I also had a lot of friends bail on my bridal shower and some of my close friends didn’t RSVP, didn’t say anything, and didn’t show. Wedding stuff really makes you realize who your true friends are. But, cling to those people that support you 100% and don’t let anyone else bring you down. I hope you are happily married now and enjoying every minute of it! I’m jealous of you because I sooo want it to be over now lol 🙂

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