(Closed) BM Rant

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
Member
1796 posts
Buzzing bee

How many bridesmaids do you have including your MOH? I cant belive that they care about how they look that much, what bitches!! And ALL of them for that matter.

Post # 4
Hostess
7561 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

Weddings can be stressful but I would try not to ruin your relationships over it. If it’s all of them like you say…is there a possibility that you’re expecting too much? 

Post # 7
Member
8320 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

Have you tried talking to these friends not about the wedding but about your friendship? Maybe they feel your expectations are too high? Maybe you did something that has upset them? Isn’t 10 years of friendship worth a conversation to try and find out what the source of the problem is?

 

Post # 8
Hostess
7561 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

I’m sure they want to give you the best but your wedding isn’t their number one priority. I can understand being upset with one BM but when you’re talking about all of them falling short, it sounds like you need to communicate with them better. Your feelings aren’t wrong of course but it sounds like you have different expectations.

Post # 9
Member
235 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I think it would be a good idea to talk to them. If you think you’ll get too emotional or end up arguing while trying to comminucate… getting a mediator to speak to them may be a good idea. Perhaps your God mother or aunt…someone who knows them well?

Not to accuse them or anything…but just communicate to see where everyone’s at and to let them know how you feel.

IF you keep it this way…you’ll resent your wedding photos and lose your friends…

Or if you get into a big rumble…you may lose your BMs…

I think communication is important here.. I don’t think they’re trying to ruin your day intentionally… or anything like that.

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