(Closed) BM Taking on MOH role

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
1120 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2009

Personally I would just let it go, unless your Maid/Matron of Honor comes to you and says that she feels this Bridesmaid or Best Man is overstepping the boundaries and feels bad about it.

I was in a wedding where I was the Maid/Matron of Honor, and a Bridesmaid or Best Man who clearly wanted that role kept doing stuff like you’re describing. I just went along with it, helped out with the wedding and was amused by her. The stuff she was doing was still contributing to the bride’s plans for the wedding, so I figured why start unnecessary drama?

Post # 4
2116 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I wouldn’t worry about it. You have enough on your plate planning a wedding. If they have a problem, let them work it out. As of now, it sounds like there is no problem and you’re worrying a bit too much.

Post # 5
61 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I agree with the other posters. It seems like you are creating a problem that doesn’t exist. Plus, maybe your Maid/Matron of Honor doesn’t mind that your Bridesmaid or Best Man is “taking over”. At any rate, they are both adults and I’m sure they can work it out themselves if a problem arises. As a bride, you must have a ton of other things to worry about, don’t get caught up in nonexistent drama. Good luck! 🙂

Post # 6
2161 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Take whatever help you can get.  If your Maid/Matron of Honor feels left out, just include her.

Post # 7
241 posts
Helper bee

You have enough to worry about. You shouldn’t know whose doing what and if you do, just ignore it.

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