- 7 years ago
- Wedding: September 2011
Everyone seems to have an opinion on what the BMs duties and Maid/Matron of Honor duties are. I’ve been a Bridesmaid or Best Man a few times and they have been either out of town or really small where I did not have to participate in anything except the bachelorette party and bridal shower, and of course the wedding.
I’ve already chosen my BMs and Maid/Matron of Honor, but I’m not sure what they are suppose to do for me. I know they are suppose to organize (assuming they give me one) the bachelorette pary and bridal shower. I’m not the type that needs to be ‘hand-held’ for everything wedding related, so I don’t need my BMs to come with me for cake tasting, venue selection, wedding dress selection, etc. I just want them to show up to the Bridesmaid or Best Man dress picking and fitting and be at my side during the wedding. However, I don’t want to offend anyone if that is not the norm. Help!!!