- 5 years ago
I’m not engaged yet, couple more months :), but was recently talking about wedding stuff with a cousin who is getting married and we were talking about who we would want in our bridal party. When I told her mine, she said you’re not going to have her?!
So that got me thinking. Initially I wanted to have 3 friends and 3 cousins. She thought it was weird that I wouldn’t have FSIL as a bridesmaid. Future FI and I are pretty close with his one sister and I had felt bad for not giving her “priority” enough to be in the wedding party. I think that she would feel upset.
Also future FI doesn’t think she would feel upset and that it doesn’t matter if I have her as a bridesmaid or not.
However, because I do not want more than 6 attendants, I would have to probably cut out one of my cousins. I don’t want to do this either because I don’t want her to feel lumped in with the “little” girls and genuinely want her to be a part of the day.
Not that it matters too much right now, but after thinkign about it with this other cousin I don’t know what i would do. I don’t want to step up on toes and feel that I would with either one that I have.
Thanks for your help bees!!