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    mrbee    March 5, 2005   New York City, New York

    There was a request for a board for plus size brides a few months ago:

    I think it would be great to have a board for plus sized brides (or plus size issues in general). We have many wedding planning issues specific to us, and I think it would be helpful for us plus sized brides to have more of a presence. This would not be a diet/exercise type of board, but instead a comfortable place where we can share our concerns/considerations, and be recognized for being beautiful no matter our size!

    http://ideas.weddingbee.com/topic/plus-size-brides

    We'd love to hear more from you guys about the idea.  Please vote or comment on the ideas link!

    http://ideas.weddingbee.com/topic/plus-size-brides

    Or feel free to comment here too... thanks!

     
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    scissors    June 19, 2010   Atlanta, Ga

    If we go that route, we could sure use a tall (*cough*) and petite one too!

     

     
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    july112010    July 11, 2010   los angeles

    totally agree with scissors. I definitly wont be able to use the tall board though Wink

     
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    bamm    June 5th 2010/August 15th 2010   Seoul

    I always thought 14 was a regular size...but I quickly learned that it's plus when it comes to the wedding industry.  So I would love a plus board (and a 5-11 I wouldn't say no to a tall board either!)

     
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    mrbee    March 5, 2005   New York City, New York

    Feel free to add any more ideas for boards to the ideas forum!

    http://ideas.weddingbee.com

    Would love to hear feedback on this specific board...

     
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    rabbit    September 3, 2010   Milwaukee, WI

    I would love to see a Plus Size board! I am neither that tall or that short...but I second that tall and petite boards would be nice.

     
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    Serya    October 7, 2011   Frederick, MD

    Just commented and voted.

     

    ~Thick is the new thin!~

     
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    Tenille    September 22, 2010   Beauval, SK

    I am all for a plus-size board. Yay for curvyliscious woman!

     
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    crebre80    November 20, 2010   Baton Rouge, LA

    voting now and i say totally yeah!!

     
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    MsMamaBear       Atlanta

    I vote yah!

     
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    Gemstone    July 2011   Cincinnati

    I'm not sure about segmenting users based on size...how do we determine who falls into that category?

     
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    MissACS    March!  

    I dont think it was about branding users and stamping them one way or the other. It was another forum, like 20 something, 30 something, encore, etc.

     
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    fabulouslyengaged    8/1/09  

    I actually agree with Gemstone. I think it may feel like there is segregation by size. Having a dress board, I think, should be enough.

     
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    MissACS    March!  

    By that logic, the 20-something, 30-something, etc boards should go because they're ageist.

    It's a specific demographic and people are interesting in having it. No one is required to post there and no one is being branded a Plus Size bride. It's not like someone from WeddingBee is coming out, measuring you and saying "Yeah and if we see you in Petites, we're totally coming back and breaking your keyboard."

    If there's a crowd interest in any demo, let it happen. It's great for any specific bridal interest to have a venue to discuss their specific concerns.

     
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    MsMamaBear       Atlanta

    Totally agree MissACS!

     
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    selainesa    May 8, 2010   East TN

    I'd love for there to be a plus-size board!  And I wouldn't be offended at all. LOL.  I agree with others that it's just a place for those of us who have specific issues concerning size and weight to go to.  Especially wedding related.  If you don't feel comfortable commenting on the board, then don't.  But give us 'plus-size' brides who want to ask questions and get opinions the opportunity to do so.  We have questions and issues that pertain to only us, just like the ethnicity boards and such. 

    I say at least try it out and if it doesn't work out, it can be taken down.  That's my 2 cents.

     
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    D.Marie    April 24, 2010   Philadelphia, PA

    I have to say that Im a plus size bride and I hate the label....and I understand the emotions you go through worrying about finding a dress. But I just want to be a bride. Yes its easier to go in a store and find your size because of the sign that says plus size...but why cant I just go in the store and be in the womens section, no labels on any clothes...just womens.

     
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    Carebear0613    August 14, 2010   Bay Area

    Having a Plus size, petite, tall and etc. board is a great idea!

     
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    Melissabegins    December 12, 2009  

    i think that some people may like it, and others would not. but if you're offended by the term, don't post there :-) I think it'd be great to give people who did want a place to talk and relate about this a new board..

     
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    Ms. Snuggie    December 31, 2011   Northern California

    I think it is a great idea.  How about a board for us tall and curvy ladies?  :-)  At a size 6-8, I can't really call myself plus size, but I would love to get ideas for bridesmaid dresses and MOB gowns, since my sister and mother are both plus size ladies.  Great idea.

     
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    JamaicaBride    May 14, 2011   Charlotte, NC

    @D. Marie...I voted yes for the plus-sized section but I can sympathize with your feelings. The reality is, plus-sized fashion is still considered a niche market when it comes to finding trendy, flattering fashion. We plus-sized brides have additional things to consider IMO when buying dresses, trying to find photographers, MUAs etc. Even if you decide not to post...at least you know there is a place you can "lurk" and maybe get some great ideas or perspectives you hadn't thought of =)

     
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    MrsK2be    November 15, 2008   Ohio

    I like it!  I agree with **MissACS**

     
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    JeanL1984    October 16, 2010   Kingston, PA

    It's such a touchy subject, but I think it's something we should discuss and have a place to discuss. Of course, I've seen lots of posts in the past in other categories were people just noted in the title they were chatting about plus size dresses or whatever. Some of us might be plus size and OK with that, or not looking to drop a billion pounds before our weddings, and you do face issues. Like right now I'm trying to find salons that will have dresses that are even close to my size that I can try on, and it's hard!

    I vote yes but maybe we need another name? curvy brides? I don't know exactly what would work, but "plus size" rubs some people the wrong way sometimes :)

     
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    EastpointeBride    June 6, 2010  

    I think it's a great idea....already voted.  I am not offended by it at all it would actually be very helpful.  Being that there are not a plethera of vendors that cater to the curvy ladies, if we could have a place where all the ideas or suggestions are gathered it would save time and frustration.  It can become very discouraging to look for something specific and be told it's not available in your size, just my thoughts.

     
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    LatteLove    June 19, 2009   Chicago/San Diego

    I wonder if people might not agree about where the line might be drawn for plus size/non plus size and it could create some conflicts.

    But other than that I'm not opposed.

     
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    monitajb    July 17, 2010   Sacramento

    I think it is a great idea. The best feature of the specialized boards is that it allows you to look to see what has already been said on your topic. There aren't many posts in the Secular board, for example, but I can look to that and get advice and comment, instead of posting the same things over and over.

    I would love to see a non-traditional board in the "culture" section.

     
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    oyster    July 2010   Dallas

    I think Miss ACS said it very well. I really posted the idea because there are specific concerns related to being a larger-than-average size, and it would be nice to just have a board where you could post similar topics, and find them easily.

    I self-identify as a plus-size, so I suggested that without much thought. Whatever it is called, I believe the need is there... not just for averaged-sized brides who are bumped into the plus-size bridal category. There are some of us who are plus-sized all the time, so the label is not new to us. 

    If one doesn't identify as "plus size" or "curvy" or whatever... I don't even think we need to define it -- if you post there, it's your choice, and if you post a "plus size" issue on the regular board, I imagine it wouldn't matter. Like Miss ACS said, no one's getting out the measuring tape! :)

     
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    bestbuddies    June 6, 2010   Chicago, Illinois

    love the idea!!

     
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    VioletVeil    July 7, 2009  

    I think that it will be fine as long as bees approach the topic respectfully. Everyone's bridal experience is different just as everyone's life experiences are different. The need and desire for this board has been expressed. Posting there is up to each bee's preference.

     
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    waitingbee    September 4, 2010   California

    I vote yes, and I love the "curvy bride" suggestion !!

     
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    mrscarp2be    August 14, 2010   Los Angeles

    Love the idea

     

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