Post # 1
My best friend is getting married 3 months after me.
She has always been flat chested, but is still a really curvy girl. (big hips and big booty;)
She has always wanted to get a boob job (a natural looking one to bring her A cup to a C cup)
She called me this morning to tell me her fiance said he would pay for one for her if she got it instead of them going on the honeymoon.
She is really conflicted because her and her man have never gone on a vaca together, but she knows once its over, it will be over….and if she got a boob job it would bring a long term joy rather than short term…
What would you do if you were in her shoes and u really have always wanted a boob job, like she has seriously talked about it everyday since she was 18. She is 30 now.
I told her I don’t know what she should do…
Post # 3
I’d go on the vacation. Obviously he loves her for how she is now, so the boob job can wait. No telling when they might have the chance to go on a nice vacation again though. Plus, a honeymoon only comes once in your marriage.
Post # 4
@Tarheelgurl: That is a good point:) Thanks i will tell her that
Post # 5
I think a honeymoon would bring long term joy, it’s once in a lifetime and the memories would most likely last a long time.
Post # 7
I would go on the honeymoon. To be honest, I think it’s a little selfish to take the money that was designated for something for both of them to celebrate their marriage and use it for something superficial, like plastic surgery.
Post # 8
@BrideToBe14: I think she would end up regretting not taking the vacation! I have nothing against plastic surgery but a honeymoon is so special, and you can’t ever get those moments back! I wish her the best 🙂
Post # 9
(Haha…I’m a solid B and the first time I put my dress on was the only time I considered getting it done!)
Post # 10
No question – honeymoon gets my vote!! Then again, some of the prettiest girls I know have relatively flat chests and curvy butts, so I happen to think that’s a really cute body to have…
Plus, hey, maybe if/when she has a baby, her boobs may take on a whole new life…
Post # 11
I don’t know why it has to be one or the other. I’d probably go on the honeymoon and then talk with my husband about how to make the boob job a reality. It won’t happen right away, but it’s nothing that can’t be saved for.
Post # 12
@BrideToBe14: I would get the boobs. Then, when they go on vacation together in the future, she’ll have more confidence and will fill out her bikini.
I can see her looking back at her flat chest in the honey moon pics, wishing she’d gotten the breast implants.
Post # 13
@BrideToBe14: It’s totally up to her obviously, but I would go with the boob job. I’m also an A-cup and have wanted actual boobs for as long as I can remember- not these little mosquito bites! It makes buying clothing much more difficult because everything is huge in the chest area & costs me more $$ bc everything has to be tailored… I’d be worried once I had that money and spent it on a vacation/honeymoon I wouldn’t be able to save it up again for the surgery…. BUT a honeymoon/vacation is something they both would enjoy, not sure if the same is true for a boob job so that’s something to consider as well.
Post # 14
@BurlapnLace: LOL Boooooobiiieeeeeesss!
Her man is a boob guy, but he loves her just the way she is…
I get that a honeymoon would be more memorable, but the boob job could be such a life change for her..I just know how bad she has always wanted this…
Such a hard decision for her:(
Post # 15
@earear: Thats what i was initially thinking…
They could go to a beach (that wasn;t the bahamas) maybe in FLorida for a weekend a couple months after the honeymoon and get the boobs?
Post # 16
@BrideToBe14: hmmm. I have small b cups boobs and I have thought about getting a boob job before, but have decided that it is not the best idea for me for many reasons. However, if this is something that she has wanted since she was 18 (I mean, thats 12 years!!) then I say she should get the surgery. It might give her more self confidence, make her happy, and maybe even spark some more intimacy in the bedroom. I think if she is going to wait to save up it could take years and at some point it might not be worth it as much anymore.
Anyway I think it is a lot easier to find cheaper vacations so they could still do something together, just maybe not an expensive honeymoon trip. But, you certainly wouldn’t want to settle for a cheap surgeon. :p