Boob job- to tell or not to tell

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
9697 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

@MrsMOH-CA:  Your breast size is no one’s business but your own. I wouldn’t tell her. You will wear the dress and ensure it fits so what difference does it make to her? 

Post # 4
3066 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@MrsMOH-CA:  If you think shes going to stress about it, I wouldnt tell her until after when you are recovered and back to your normal daily schedule. I wouldnt get mad at my girls for getting a boob job & not telling me. Id be surprised and congratulate her after the fact!

Post # 6
774 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@MrsMOH-CA:  I’d tell her after the fact.  No need to add stress!

Post # 7
3762 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

It has nothing to do with her or her wedding, so why on earth would she stress about it? You don’t need to tell her, what you do with your own body is your personal business. 

Post # 8
7492 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2014 - A castle!

@MrsMOH-CA:  Unless you’re high risk for the surgery or something why bother telling her? Most of my friends with implants bounced back really really fast after surgery.

ETA: have you already been fitted for your bridesmaid gown? That could be a problem.. 

Either way, she’ll find out when she sees you 🙂


Post # 9
84 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

Not helpful at all… but I had mine done in March.. Best thing I ever did 🙂

Good Luck!! I hope you love them as much as I do!! xx

Post # 10
8044 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

Don’t tell her.

I had a boob reduction shortly after my BFF’s mom died. I didn’t tell her because I didn’t want to put another worry on her plate… and honestly it’s pretty personal so the only people I really had to tell were my mom, sister, and husband.

Post # 11
1328 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

As long as the dress fits and you’re back on your feet by the wedding I don’t see any reason to tell her. 

Post # 12
5801 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

Everyone I know who has had a boob job has been up and going within 2 weeks (most were back up within a week). 4 months out? I wouldn’t bother with telling her. I’m not sure why it would have any bearing on her wedding – it’s not like you’re getting it the week before or anything. I say keep it to yourself, it’s no body’s business anyway.

Post # 13
8014 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2013 - UK

Tell nobody. The more people you tell, the more unsolicited opinions you will receive.

Post # 14
2793 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I think whatever you decide will be just fine. You ordered your dress to fit the new twins so who cares. I think you telling her should be about you being excited about the change and just simply telling her because she’s your friend…and not about the wedding.

Post # 15
785 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@MrsMOH-CA:  it sounds like it would be lower stress just to not mention it until after the fact

Post # 16
4194 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - Baltimore Museum of Industry

As long as they’re not popping out of your dress, the girls are none of her business. 🙂

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