Weddingbee boards

I don't have any books, but I know my FI and I have just come to terms with who does what in terms of finance.  My FI pays the bills and I do all the "budgeting" (though we use the word loosely to define how much we're saving and a plan to pay off student loans). 

We are having a shared checking, shared savings, and separate checking and savings.  One of the bees has the same set up.  We will deposit paychecks into the shared savings.  From there, transfers are made into shared checking for rent, food, etc, and individual checking for spending money.

I just googled the book I read about handling finances, and found out they have a website :P you can check it out here: http://www.wealthybarber.com/ It's a little bit older, and not specifically for couples, but it has a great approach in that it uses "common sense" planning and is written in a story format, so it's easy to read. Our copy has been passed around our family - as in, "this is good. You need to read this."