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Honestly, my husband has never bored me. Driven me crazy? Made me angry? Oh yeah. Bored? Never.
I usually can't stand being around another person for more than five hours. I've never once had that antsy feeling of having to get away from him.
I don't really know how to answer this. I guess I don't expect FI to entertain me? Sure I am bored when he is around sometimes... but I don't think he is boring. Life is boring sometimes :)
I voted "on occasion" because sometimes, my husband and I are bored together. There are some weekends where we just don't feel like doing anything, but at the same time, we look at each other and say, "we're bored!"
But I'm never board because of him, if that's what you're asking. We're just sometimes bored together, and yes, I think that's perfectly natural Life can't always be super exciting.
*shrug* I don't get bored easily. I can pretty much always find something to entertain myself. Plus, if one of us gets bored, usually we'll say something and then go out to play! Sometimes all you need is a change of scenery :)
Sometimes I get bored because I'm very independent and we live together so I see him everyday. When I do get bored, I get out of the house for a few hours. When I get back I'm happy to see him!
We've been together for so long that it's bound to happen every now and then. I don't think it's necessarily a reflection of him. It's not as if I get bored of him or because of him it's just life can't always be exciting and new. Am I making any sense?
I voted on occassion. I wouldnt say he bores me but there are times when we are bored together. Nothing on TV, nowhere to go, nothing to do kinda thing.
Not going to lie, sometimes my dear boyfriend bores me to tears. Of course, that's only when he's lecturing on the history of the baptist church in the 1980's, classic films of the 1930's or you know, the study of BEING. He knows everything and is working towards being a college professor, but right now he doesn't have an audience to lecture about such things and so... here I am.
Well, I can be bored AROUND my husband, but HE doesn't bore me. He's not exactly a crazy entertaining dance around kind of fella, but if he bored me...I would take that as his inability to carry on a conversation or do meaningful things with me. Don't get me wrong, I'm bored without him sometimes....but his personality doesn't bore me. I'm pretty busy so I don't get "bored" necessarily
I spend my whole week at work being bored as hell at work so I couldn't bear it if I were bored around him!
I only get to see my guy on weekend (we don't live in the same city) and we action pack our weekends together.
If you're finding your bored around your guy maybe you should try picking up some new activities together? If all you do together is watch TV I can see how you'd get bored.
My FI doesn't bore me but I do get bored around him. Sometimes there aren't things to do, things to watch, whatever but I don't think he's a boring person. He has a great personality and is very engaging but there are times when it is boring being around him.
Car rides. Especially after work and to work. He's grumpy in the mornings because he is NOT a morning person and after work, he just needs unwinding time and they're also tearing up the interstate we use to get home so our 15 minutes commute has turned into 45... And I get bored. I want to talk but he'd rather not. He just wants to listen to music and unwind.
I can't recall ever being truly bored with him. Sometimes he rambles on about work, but that's amusing in its own right. :P We're a pretty introverted pair and can be quiet for a long time without it bothering us, so we're happy to do our own thing rather than try to entertain each other. I guess that growing up in the middle of nowhere taught me to amuse myself.
I'm voting on this in the same way that cheerful saw the poll
No, I have never thought, my FI is so boring I just can't stand to be next to him.
Do we ever get bored when we're together because we have nothing to do...yes.
My future hubs hasn't ever made me bored. Things arn't always perfect...but they also arn't ever boring! And I'd always rather be hanging out with him then alone :)
Neither of us is ever really bored because we always have a million things that we want to do but don't have time for! However, I think being bored with your partner could just be a normal, natural part of the relationship, or it could be a sign of things to come. I guess it depends on what you mean by bored--do you mean that you don't find him exciting and you're looking to other people to be fulfilled? That could be a bad sign.
We have our ups and downs, but I'm never bored with my FI. Even if we're just hanging out with nothing to do, he has never been the cause of my boredom.
I agree with the other Bees my FI doesnt bore me as such, and at the mo we are both too busy to be bored, However I do get bored too tears during Football season, don't get me wrong I love sport and I am more than willing to watch our Footy team play each week, I'll watch cricket all day in Summer (I don't know many GF's that are prepared to watch a 5 day Test intently). I love the Olympics, Tennis, Golf, Rugby even the Soccer if Australia is playing. what I object to is when my FI try's to watch all 8 Football games played by every team in the AFL (Australian otball League) each week.
Never bored with my hubby!! Do I roll my eyes at him on occasion- yes!! ;)
hmmm, thanks ladies. im not saying he is boring. i love him dearly, and we have tons in common, and then also tons not so common, which keeps things interesting. i think I needed a little reassurance. Its a huge step, and i get some doubts soemtimes, but its more a reflection of some unhealthy things i have witnessed in my own past and the reluctance to make a commitment till now! But I am happy to have done so! :)
I was a little scared to even see the responses on here (!)- so thank you for the honesty and stellar support.
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