(Closed) bored of waiting.

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
Member
1541 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

I hear you girl! I just had a talk with SO about our timeline and he doesn’t understand why the “when” matters. He wants to marry me, so I should leave it up to him. Men don’t understand that it’s hard on our end too!

How old are you? From your post, sounds like you are in your early 20’s? If your SO is around the same age, it can be tough to get younger men on a track of marriage and kids. They seem to be okay with hypothetical stuff, but they’re still young and want to act like a kid-not have them.

Post # 4
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32 posts
Newbee

lilybug9

Blimey, I could have written this myself! I am 26, 27 in June and have the same timeline and we have been together the same amount of time! I wanted to be finished having my children by the time I was 30 but unless we get married like NOW and I have twins, that’s not going to happen!

I’m not like some of the other bees on here who seem to know it will happen soon, I have no idea at all. He could pop the question tomorrow…..or in 2 years!! And like yours, he does not show any signs of interest!

memo 

My SO is the same despite him being 35, he doesn’t get why I’d rather it be sooner rather than later. I’m leaving all marriage discussions until July, I will be 27 then and we can assess the timeline!

Men Eh?!

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