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    My fiance just told me I'm fickle about making wedding decisions.  We haven't made any changes to decisions regarding vendors and what not but is it so bad to think about the decisions we've made together or to ask ourselves what would things look like if we went with the other option? Just venting.

     
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    Valhalla    June 26, 2010   Vancouver, British Columbia

    Awe, that sucks! Wedding decisions are super important, and can be very difficult to make, so its understandable you want to consider all options. Perhaps FI just isn't as into it as you, so he doesn't understand the need to be really sure about something?

    Feel better! I went with my FI to update our registry today, and it was a semi-stressful process that really brought out his cranky side! We are doing better now though.

     
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    stewie    May 2010  

    I think I flip-flop everyday. Different colors, flowers, dresses. So much to choose and I love so many things! I'm right there with ya. After all, these are our weddings and we want them to be perfect. That said, I have realized inthe past few days that I need to make decisions and finalize things. I can't keep changing my mind, there will always be something else I want to add or tweak and I don't need to stress myself out :)

     
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    NicLoop    10/10/10   GA

    it is normal to want to change, especially since you have so much time you can easily get sick of something fast. 

     

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