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Boudoir Photo Sessions - Are you doing them?

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    Future Mrs Scott    December 5, 2010   Maryland

    Hello,

    I am new here, getting married on 12-5-2010.  I decided as part of wedding gift to have boudoir pics done, I am a little nervous as I am a plus size girl size 16 but large up top.  Wondering if anyone else is doing them and if you have any pointers on posing.

     
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    JsDragonfly    December 29, 2009  

    I'm a plus sized girl too and was afraid of doing the pics...but I did and I'm so glad I did because the husband LOVED them.  I had to get creative w/ my outfits because it was 2 months before the wedding and I was so broke.  So, I basically went with what I had.  I did do a "wet" white tshirt which was nice, because I didn't feel like my flabby tummy was hanging out there.  My husband is in the military, so I stole one of his uniform top thingies and wore that with it haning open...it covered the "important" parts, but definitely left room for the imagination.  Another outfit I did was a dress I always wear to church.  Normally, to make it modest, I have to wear a cammi underneath it, but without the cammi, it shows some major cleavage.  The last outfit wasn't really an outfit.  We couldn't go on a honeymoon right away, so to make the apartment special, I redecorated it and made a new bedset.  I took the purple satin that I used to make the duvet and just draped it over me.  All in all, I was pleased with hos the pics turned out.  They were super sexy, according to my husband, but I still felt like the parts of my body I don't like were strategically covered up. lol  As for poses, if the photographer is standing higher than you and looking down at you when they take a pic, that tends to be a flattering shot and makes you look slimmer.  But I did a variety of poses and surprisingly the ones I didn't think I would like ended up being my favorite.

     
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    ChaCha    June 11, 2011   Chicago-ish

    I'm also planning on having boudoir pics taken, but I'm going with my also-engaged bff. Alone, we would be terrified, but we figure being together would make us more comfortable and could create a fun atmosphere. AND we are really counting on each other to give much-needed compliments here and there. :)

    One thing we refuse to compromise on is having a female photographer. I can't imagine how uncomfortable I would be posing like that in front of a man, no matter how great his photos are!

     
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    Future Mrs Scott    December 5, 2010   Maryland

    Thanks for the tips Dragonfly, im thinking havineg my sister do it and getting a room at nice hotel for the day.  She is just starting her photography business so it would be nice practice for her.

     
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    crebre80    November 20, 2010   Baton Rouge, LA

    @futuremrs: yeppers I am doing them, and here are some pix I have for inspiration...

    Boudoir Photo Sessions - Are you doing them? :  wedding Crystal Italian Vogue 1

    Boudoir Photo Sessions - Are you doing them? :  wedding Hungry

    i adore the picture on the left...

    Boudoir Photo Sessions - Are you doing them? :  wedding Slide 4270 60046 Large

     

     
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    kurtsbride2b    July 10, 2010   Laurel, Maryland

    I hadn't thought about it, especially being plus size. I really like the sweater pose in crebre08 posts is super hot thought. 

    In other news..I love Crystal Renn she is doing it for the "big girls"111

     
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    crebre80    November 20, 2010   Baton Rouge, LA

    @curt:the sweater is my favorite pose by far :D

     
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    farfromordinarybride    December 31, 2010   PA

    I will be doing them as well. I'm so excited. This is definitely something out of my normal character, so I know hubby to be will lose his mind. Well worth the anxiety lol.

     
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    mizzlori       Silver Spring MD

    Hi Ladies! and congrats! I love the idea of Boudoir shoots for a gift for your groom!

    I actually work with local photogs in dc/md/va doing the makeup for the shoots..

    You may leave me a personal message if you want more info..I am not suppsed to post my website or email on here .

     
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    WordSlinger    July 7, 2011   Upper Marlboro, MD

    I'm gonna do a BD shoot.

    I have a male photographer, but I'm bringing some friends with me so I won't feel self-conscious!

     

     
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    BFRANK2584    July 3, 2011   Chicago

    I want to do this for his "day of" gift when the other deliveries are made as his gifts.....hopefully he will see them and run to the alter to get things over and done with.....hehehehe

     
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    futuremrsoloyede    February 22, 2012   Orange County, CA

    im new to the whole wedding planning business and had never even heard of this type of photography... thanks bees for enlightening me! sounds like a fab idea =D

     
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    06anchored08    August 11, 2011   Chicago, IL

    I want to have these photos done but how do you "give" these things?...I am quite clueless and a bit nervous about someone seeing them- other than Mr. 06Wink

     
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    eebgniddew    May 28, 2011   CT

    YUP! i have an appt in january, i can't WAIT to give him the album on our wedding night!!!

    @06anchored08 - My plan is to get the dvd of images they're offering as part of my package and making 4x6 prints. I'm putting them in a simple album tied with a ribbon and giving the album on our wedding night. Keeping it simple, understated and sophisticated is the way to go!

     
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    Sweetheart1    May 27, 2011   Lake Mary, Fl.

    I would LOVE to do one! It would be my first time doing anything like this, so I am a little nervous! If anyone knows anyone in Orlando, Fl I would some contact information!

     
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    askewd1    March 26, 2011   Indianapolis

    Hey Ladies,

    I want to do this so bad but I am not comfortable in front of the camera.  My FH would LOVE this so much!!!! Thanks for the inspiration.  Our wedding photographer is a man... i guess I could take my BMs with me so that I would feel better.

    I would give it to him the night before the wedding....

     
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    sheebsw    May 7, 2011   North Carolina

    I actually had some boudoir photos done recently for my fiance'.  I have to say, I was very nervous.......I had a baby 10 months ago and I still haven't lost all of the baby weight.  But, my photographer made me feel so comfortable!  The pictures came out amazing!!  I didn't know I could even look like that.....her work was incredible.  So ladies, I HIGHLY recommend getting boudoir photos done.  Your fiance's or husbands will LOVE it!!!  Wink

     
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    wstonesifer707       San Antonio, TX

    You can wear his favorite sports team jewelry, lay on a bed and use the sheet as a cover up, cover with bubbles in a bathtub..etc. many many ideas!

     

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