Post # 1
I am in need of some wisdom and logic 🙂
I had boudoir photos taken last Friday and am at the point where I need to choose my faves-this, in itself, is nearly as daunting a task as posing in front of someone I just met in my bra and panties… I keep over-thinking my choices and it’s been two days since I received the photo proofs… Do men appreciate black and white photos the same way that women do or should I opt for color? I cannot decide which ones I want and at this point I’ve recruited three close girl friends and my sister-I literally have looked at the pictures at least 57 times – as soon as I wake up, in hopes that maybe I missed something and then before I go to sleep! I have NO idea which ones to choose but I want them to be uber sexylicious :)))) What do you think about the black and white vs. color thing and any other advice is SOOOO appreciated at this point. I can’t decide and I want my love (Specialist Sierra) (Notice a phonetic alphabet thing going on here? 😉 ) to think that they super sexy… HELP!
Post # 3
I went with black and white for a "traditional" boudoir outfit. Really hot, with the thigh highs and garter belt, bustier, and stilettos. It went best with the intense look of the outfit. I did a close up face shot in Sepia b/c it was soft on my face. Everything else was color. My DH said that it looks more like me when it’s in color.
It was so hard to pick mine, I ended up with a 20 page book instead of a 10! He loved the more risque ones though because they were so unlike me. I only had a couple of those, but his draw hit the floor. Gotta love the shock factor
Post # 4
I’m having a really hard time because there aren’t 10 that I absolutely love…maybe I’m being too hard on myself??? I don’t know but I am super stressing out on choosing 10 photos… like seriously at the point where I’m about to recruit some bees for their opinions LOL. AHH!
Post # 5
if he loves you, you will be sexy to him no matter what you wear….
Post # 6
Your half naked, we always over analyze ever thing about ourselves, they just like that your half naked.. it will be ok, i’m sure their super hott
Post # 7
It makes me sad that you don’t love them all! more often than not, I have clients come back to me saying they can’t narrow it down… even if you ARE hard on yourself, it should be easy to find 10 that make you feel like a total rock star.
If I were you, I’d post a review, or talk to your photographer about doing another shoot until you have images you love.
Post # 8
Thanks McGowan-I appreciate your input-I thought maybe I just had a really skewed view of myself maybe? I don’t know. There’s no way that I can tell the photographer though, I’d feel like "that girl" the high maintenance chick… 🙁