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Boudoir photos - did you tell him?

posted 2 years ago in Photography
  • poll: Did you tell your FI before you did your boudoir photos, or did you keep it a secret?
    Yeah, I told. Why not? : (6 votes)
    27 %
    Nope, I didn't tell. I can keep my mouth shut, thanks. : (16 votes)
    73 %
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    BubblyBride    March 20, 2010  

    Okay, I'm sold.  After seeing some of the bees' amazing boudoir photos, I'm going to take the plunge and book a session.  It totally makes sense to me - we all put a lot of effort into looking and feeling our healthiest for our weddings, so why not flaunt it?

    My question is: did you tell your FI before you did your boudoir photos, or are you planning on surprising him?

    I'd like to surprise him, but I'm terrible at keeping secrets.  (E.g., FI has already seen a picture of me in my wedding dress.)  I don't know how I'm going to keep my mouth shut about this one.

     
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    scissors    June 19, 2010   Atlanta, Ga

    Keep it a secret! Much more fun that way. :)

     
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    Querida       Sugar Land, TX

    I'm 99% sold that I want to do this too...  Keeping my mouth shut will really be the hard part...

     
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    BrooklynBride10    October 9, 2010   nyc

    I'm definitely going to try to keep it a secret. FI will be so suprised!

     
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    pvaulter718    September 5, 2009   Pennsylvania

    He knew I was going to get photos taken, but I let him think they were bridals (I come from a VERY southern family who insisted that I get these done).  I'm going to give him the book (Blurb) as his wedding gift.

     
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    MrsSl82be    October 24, 2009  

    I got mine done 2 weeks ago, and waiting for the CD to come in the mail.  I'm going to have a Blurb or some kind of book made for him as my wedding present to him.  So far the only thing I've been able to keep secret are my wedding dress and those pics, so I'm doing everything I can to not tell him!

    If it makes it easier, have a girlfriend or two in on it so you can talk about it with them.  My BFF went with me to get my pics cuz  I was super nervous and she made me feel more comfortable being practically naked in front of a complete stranger

     
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    Miss Librarian    9/6/09   Upstate NY

    I have managed to keep it a secret up to this point and it is HARD! I keep trying to make him guess haha. He will be surprised and it will be worth it!

     
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    futuremrslerman    June 6, 2009  

    I didn't tell him.  The night before the wedding I slipped into his room and put the book under the covers of his bed with a note - For your eyes only.

    He loved it!!

     
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    ejs4y8    June 20, 2009  

    Mine was a secret but it was soooooooooo hard. I was dying to see his face when he opened them up Christmas Eve

     
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    mdarrah    4/4/09   Los Angeles, CA

    I surprised him with a photobook the day of the wedding, and he loved it! .... keeping my mouth shut was hard but paid off!

     
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    Valerie1400      

    How much did everyone pay for these and what did you get ( if that's ok to ask ).    I'm getting different quotes and I'm getting confused.    

     
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    Samisomsam    March 13, 2010   Longview, WA

    I definitely want it to be a secret. 1) Because if it's not a secret, I'll want to give it to him before the wedding and 2) because he'll try to talk me out of it since it is expensive. I don't want him to feel bad since we sort of agreed on no gifts for each other (our honeymoon is our gift to ourselves...oops ;) ).

     
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    IA_Snowflake    August 29, 2009   Missouri Valley, IA

    I told him, but I didn't show him any of the preview photos.  He LOVED it.  I totally recommend it

     
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    hotchildinthecity    June 12, 2010   New York, NY

    I wasn't even considering doing this, but FI actually asked me if I would because he thought it would be "hot."  I told him no freakin way, so now if I actually do decide to do it, I guess it would be a surprise ;o)

    I'm actually great at surprises and keeping secrets and the like.

     
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    ejs4y8    June 20, 2009  

    @Valerie, I spent $700 and it included hair, makeup, 4 outfit changes (technically 3 but the lady said if i was quick it'd be ok) and about 4 hours in the studio between hair/makeup, shooting and going over the pictures immediately after the shoot. I got 20 images in a "little black book" and they were done within 2 weeks. I used an all-woman studio that specializes in woman's boudoir.

     

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