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Bought a different dress than planned...

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    Kaybeewills    August 22, 2010   Salem, Oregon

    Arg. I just bought a totally different dress than I was planning. This one is a lot more lightweight and will be nicer for an outdoors, casual August wedding where I plan to be visiting, drinking and dancing more than posing for pictures. It's also got straps, which are much more flattering on me.

    Bought a different dress than planned... :  wedding Large  1831

    My only problem is that I never got that "OH MY GOD I'M SO EXCITED!!!" feeling while trying on ANY of the 30+ dresses I've worn. I came close with one of the dresses I posted previoiusly about... but I felt bad paying that much for a dress I'll wear for like 6 hours. I also put the "exciting" dress back on today, and it just felt like a big "mess of dress"... like it'd get in my way and be hot and sweaty and a pain in the butt (not literally).

    I like the dress I bought- it's flattering and was the smart option. I bought the store's floor model for $350. I feel good about the price. I feel very sensible.

    Anyone else in the same boat, dress-wise? Feeling not quite tickled-to-death, but feeling very sensible?

     
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    Kaybeewills    August 22, 2010   Salem, Oregon

    Oh, forgot to mention in case anyone wondered... it's a Casablanca dress, style #1831.

     
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    msbuttons    May 30, 2010   Palm Harbor, FL

    The dress is very pretty, and what a good deal!

     

    You don't HAVE to get the "oh my gosh its THE dress" feeling! I haven't posted about it yet, but I can tell you that I didn't get it...even though the dress that I did buy IS "THE dress" in the end. I was hoping to get all choked up...but eh...nope! Don't feel bad!

     
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    Kaybeewills    August 22, 2010   Salem, Oregon

    OH! I just realized that I can go to my budget list and enter in that I paid $XXXX less than planned for my wedding dress! Yaaaaaaay!

     
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    EvieMarie    February 2011  

    @ Kaybee--- I had the same experience!  I wanted sleek, chic, sophistocated straight satin gown. I tried on about 75-100 gowns.  Yes, insanity.  I never really had that "oh my god, this is the ONE" moment.  I ended up with a lace, A-line, Rosa Clara dress...with ruffles.  HAHA.  I feel confident about the dress I bought, I think I look great in it, and it's very "me".  I guess some brides just never have that "A HA!" moment.... oh well!  I think your dress is beautiful.  Congrats.

     
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    Kaybeewills    August 22, 2010   Salem, Oregon

    Your dress sounds beautiful EvieMarie!

    And yep, like you said- this dress is very "me".

    I'm thinking I'm going to alter the back so it's a corsett back to add some interest. THEN.... I can match the cord for the corsett with my shoe color and make it look like it's supposed to be that way. lol. It'll be good!

     
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    msbuttons    May 30, 2010   Palm Harbor, FL

    That sounds interesting! What color are your shoes?

     
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    Kaybeewills    August 22, 2010   Salem, Oregon

    I don't know yet.... possibly red. Or Teal. Depends on what shoes I find that I love.

    It's oddly freeing to not have wedding colors... :P

     
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    msbuttons    May 30, 2010   Palm Harbor, FL

    I wouldn't have ever thought to get a corset altered into a dress! Very interesting idea!

     
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    rabbit    September 3, 2010   Milwaukee, WI

    Love the dress! Soooo pretty! Do you have any pictures of you in it? I almost always think real people look better in wedding dresses then models! :)

     
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    crebre80    November 20, 2010   Baton Rouge, LA

    I love the dress!!! It's one of my favorites and is a very sophisticated and alluring dress...

     
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    Kaybeewills    August 22, 2010   Salem, Oregon

    Thanks for the moral support, everyone! Smile

    I don't have any pictures of me in the dress... I forgot my camera! I am slightly larger than a 10 and a bit smaller than a 12 in most of the dresses I've tried, and this one is a 14 so it'll need to altered to fit, have a corset back added and length adjusted.

    I'll be sure to take pics and post them when I go in for alterations!

     

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