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    AutumnElegance    September 22, 2012   Hawaii, wedding in Maryland

    Brides with military FIs who are wearing their uniform for the wedding: Will he have a boutonniere? Or is that a big no-no because it's not part of the uniform? Does anyone have pictures of a boutonniere on a military uniform? I'm trying to decide what to do about boutonnieres and don't know whether my FI will need one.

     

     
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    Boutonnieres should never be worn with military uniforms. One less for you to make or buy.

     
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    miss_optimistic    November 12, 2009  

    @AutumnElegance: Yes, that's a big no-no when it comes to military uniforms.  He won't need one :)

     
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    furtureffcaptwife    July 28, 2012   Texas

    My FH is getting married in his Firefighter Class A uniform (very militaryesque) ...he won't be wearing a boutonnier...I think it would look odd even if it was allowed...

     
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    globalmargaret    August 25, 2012   Alaska

    no boutonnier with the uniforms, it would probably look a little out of place if it was there anyway. 

     
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    AutumnElegance    September 22, 2012   Hawaii, wedding in Maryland

    Ok, just thought I should check! Thanks all!

     
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    SapphireSun    July 9, 2010   Vancouver, BC

    @AutumnElegance: that's a totally legitimate question.  Dh wore a police dress uniform and his groomsmen wore tuxes. It just seemed so odd that the groom would then be the one without anything 

     
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    kay01    May 27, 2012   NH/VT

    They have medals that go there :)  My dad will be in uniform.

     
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    AutumnElegance    September 22, 2012   Hawaii, wedding in Maryland

    @SapphireSun: Yeah this is why I was questioning it-- none of his groomsmen are in the military so they'll all be wearing tuxes and boutonnieres... I'm sure it'll look fine though :)

     
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    SapphireSun    July 9, 2010   Vancouver, BC

    @AutumnElegance: We ended up skipping the boutonieres for the groomsmen and used a coloured pocket square instead. 

     
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    lmg32    November 11, 2012   philadelphia, PA

    My FI is ret army vet and will be wearing his uniform for the wedding.  He is having 5 groomsmen, 4 who will be in uniform, and 1 (my brother) not in the army, so he will be in a tux or suit, havent figured that out yet. Should my brother have a boutoneirre? Will it look completely off that he is only one in a tux and with a bouttonierre? I the just asked my FI this question tonight! He didn't think it mattered either way! I'm glad I stumbled onto this post :). 

     
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    SapphireSun    July 9, 2010   Vancouver, BC

    @lmg32:  I'd probably skip the bout :)

     
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    Vegasvixen    April 20, 2013   Las Vegas, NV

    I am a certified wedding coordinator and we were always taught in school a bout for a groom in uniform is a no-go!

     

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