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Boutonnieres v. Pocket Squares

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    MrsJKH2be    October 2010  

    FI doesn't want to wear a boutonniere - I don't care either way.  I suggested a pocket square instead.

    2 Questions:

       1.  Has anyone been to a wedding (or are doing this for your wedding) in which the guys didn't wear boutonnieres?  Did it look silly?

       2.  Where the heck can I find a printed pocket square?  All I can find is solid ones but I want to jazz it up a bit if this is the direction I go in.....  Google search is letting me down right now because I can't find anything!

    Any info is appreciated!

     
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    SapphireSun    July 9, 2010   Vancouver, BC

    We went with pocket squares for our groomsmen, since they weren't huge fans of wearing flowers, and the groom was wearing a millitary-esque uniform that you're not allowed to put flowers on, so I kind of thought it would be weird for the groomsmen to have something the groom didn't.  They probably would have worn them if I'd asked, but I didn't really care either way.  I know there were a few options of patterned ones at the tux rental shop, but we went with solid.Boutonnieres v. Pocket Squares :  wedding pocket square boutonniere Groomsmen

     
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    artwyopie    October 20, 2012   Northern MN

     i like the pocket squares! i haven't gotten married  yet but i really like the look of them.

     

     here is a picture  that has given me a little inspiration on the  boutonnieres v pocket squareBoutonnieres v. Pocket Squares :  wedding pocket square boutonniere 10

     
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    noritake22    March 31, 2011   Seattle

    We are just doing pocket squares. I am going to make them. FI's guys will wear the same color as my girl's dresses and FI will wear two; one that matches my girl's dresses and one that matches mine.

    There are a ton of different ones that you can buy online. Just do a google search for "pocket squares".

    Here is just one link that I found: http://www.royalsilkusa.com/detail_pocketsilks.html?gclid=COiNotXtv6MCFQ0_agod_i6Jew

     
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    Mrs.KMM    July 17, 2010   Atlanta, GA (wedding in Indianapolis, IN)

    We had both boutonieres and pocket squares (and I'll be honest, I've never seen someone in a tux without a pocket square and never in a wedding without a boutoniere - but to each their own).

    Go to Google shopping and search "patterned pocket square" - a ton of options come up.  Or just go buy some fabric in the pattern you want and cut it into the proper sized squares!

     
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    crayfish    September 11, 2010   Berkeley, CA

    We're just doing pocket squares. I think it's funny that you are worried pocket squares might look silly, because I actually think that bouts look silly ;-). We went with a solid color though - if you can't find patterened ones online or at Men's Warehouse, etc that work, it would be super, SUPER easy to buy fabric and make them.

     
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    stephinPA    October 29, 2010   Reading, PA

    We 're doing both as well.  Bouts and pocket squares.  I think it looks so nice together.

     
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    flamingred    June 19, 2010  

    We did just white pocket squares. They looked really nice-I'm not a fan of bouts at all. They always look dead at the end of the night. I would love to post pics but my husband would kill me. lol.

     
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    orangie    August 14, 2010   Canada

    We did salmon fly brooches in our wedding colours. A friend of my dad's designed it for us...it's called the Miramichi Bride,

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    flakeofsnow    1/9/2010  

    Your tux rental place should have matching options to go with their ties.  Ask them first.

     
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    qui40067    July 3, 2011  

    I'm doing this for my wedding! I think pocket squares work just fine and still look rather formal and honestly...buying flowers for the guys just seems like a waste of money, IMO.

     
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    MrsJKH2be    October 2010  

    So we went with the pocket squares.....

    Unfortunately the tux place doesn't have a sage green green one to match the vest/ties....and the ivory ones looked silly.  So now I am going to either order some or go to a fabric store and purchase fabric to DIY them.

    Thanks ladies for the opinions (and pics!)

     
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    soon2bhis    December 26, 1999  

    @orangie: that is freaking adorable!

     
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    Miss Tattoo    September 15, 2012   Pittsburgh, PA

    @MrsJKH2be: I think flowers on guys look silly. ^_^ FI didn't want them. I don't even think we are doing pocket sqaures. It's not like no one is not going to know who he is. 

     

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