- 8 years ago
So I know it’s probably just me overthinking things, and I probably have no reason to even wonder, but boyfriend’s been acting weird today.
Last night he was fine, all affectionate and tickling me and stuff, laughing. Normal.
Then today, we had to get up to wait for our new bed to arrive (our first fairly expensive purchase together! what a moment! haha). Anyway. So right away, we start cleaning up before the guys show up. He didn’t give me a kiss good morning or anything, just started cleaning right away. Normally he’s pretty cheery in the morning.
So we’re in our seperate areas cleaning, I finally pull him aside and give him a kiss, he smiles… but still not like usual. We go back to cleaning. As soon as we’re finished, he goes to clean his car. Then when the bed gets here, right away he leaves to bring his car in to get looked at.
Now, he said it takes about 20 minutes to get to the mechanic. The work on the car only took a couple hours, he said.
He was gone for 5 hours!!! He texted me every now and then, giving updates on the car. I didn’t hear from him for the last 2 hours he was gone, and by the 5th hour of him being gone, I won’t lie, I started to kinda worry. It’s not like him. Usually he’ll even text me when he’s on his way home.
Then when he got home, he barely said two words to me. Just sat reading, seemed super quiet. I asked if he was okay, he said yeah and then just went back to what he was doing. I asked how the wait for the car was, he said good and mentioned that he went to a mall and looked around, saw a tv etc. then went back to being all quiet. After about 20 minutes of being home, he went to take a nap.
He just seems… different. It was weird. I understand it could just be me, but I don’t know. And I know he’s had a hard week, he’s heading up to his parents for his uncle’s funeral, he leaves tomorrow morning. But even with that, he was totally fine just last night, that’s what I don’t get.
I was all excited to spend one of my only days off with him today, before he leaves for 4 days. And now this? Like what the heck! We even had a date to “test” our new bed hahaha if you catch my drift but now he’s all weird. 🙁
I think I’ll just leave him be but ugh, it’s just bugging me. What would you guys do? For the time being I’m just going to pretend that he went to look at rings and is freaked getting ready to propose hahahaha. 😛