- 6 years ago
Ok so my boyfriend has been acting super strange in the last few weeks and need some help figuring out what is going on.
One Minute he is super affectionate (way more than normal), has to be touching me, kissing me, telling me he loves me constantly, ect. The next he is wigging out saying things about wanting to be sure but he doesnt say about what. He did say one night though he has only done this one other time in his life and he wants to sure he makes the right decison and that he has been scewed over. Although the next day he said he doesnt know why he was saying that and to forget about it. He has been engaged once before and she cheated on him and that is the only thing I can think of that he would be talking about. He also keeps talking about trust and how he isnt sure he can trust me and stuff like that, which he has no reason not to. Its starting to make me feel bad and I havent even done anything wrong. I try talking to him about what the problem is when he starts freaking out but its like he doesnt even listen to what I’m saying, hes just completely illogical and sometimes it seems like he wants to break up with me but then 10 minutes late its back to telling me he loves me.
We also have tickets to go to a concert next month out of town where we met (same place/ same band). He isnt one to express his excitement for stuff and he told me after we got them that we need to make it special since we met there. He’s brought it up now a few times and its like he is almost giddy when talking about it. So not like him.
Anyone else experiance anything like this? I so confused by his actions and actually told him last night he is nuts and to snap out of whatever is going on.