Post # 1
D and i were out eating pizza at our favorite place when i asked him if he was free to meet my mom on sunday. he said probably. i then asked if i should call her and see if that’s good for her. he said no don’t make a definate plan, “we might wind up doing something else” he has never said anything like this to me before when i’ve been trying to concoct a plan to do something. at first i was mad and i didn’t call my mom or tell her any thing because if he doesn’t want to make a plan then we’re not going. but then i started thinking what’s up with the “we might wind up doing something else comment? and of course my mind said, is he going to propose on sunday? you guys think that’s anything? i think i’m at the over analyzing everything he says phase. your opinions would be much appreciated
Post # 3
Sounds like it could go either way… Just enjoy what may be to come!
Post # 4
I don’t have any advice for you, but I do sympathise – waiting sucks. While I was waiting, I over analysed every little thing he said and did. Heck, I didn’t even wear track pants for a few months just in case he was going to propose that day and I looked like a dag!
Trust me, if your man is anything like mine, after he proposes and you tell him how you were going mental the whole time, he will be completely clueless.
Anyway – I hope this time is it though! Good luck!
Post # 5
I don’t know. That really could mean anything. Hopefully it works out that way but don’t get your hopes up.
I was “waiting” for years before getting engaged. FI would say things all the time that made me think that it was going to happen and every time it didn’t, I was so disappointed. The best advice that I can to those waiting is to not dwell on the little statements that are made. If you get your hopes up and it doesn’t happen, you’ll just feel crappier.
Post # 6
I’m sorry if I’m making you repeat yourself, I haven’t read all your posts, but how long have you been together? I think that could really mean anything, it could mean dinner, a movie, anything! Do you think he would really propose to you if he hasn’t met your mom yet? Cuz I know my family would be pissed if I got engaged and they hadn’t met my SO yet.
Post # 8
@Bostonsmom: he said he is going to propose within the next 5 months so it could be any time in there…. yes i think he would propose before he met my family or i met his… he says he wants everyone to meet of course but he’s not like rushing to meet her. actually in about a month i’m going with him to a family gathering of his. which is exciting! he’s also said several times that who knows… the proposal could be coming sooner than i think! we’ve been dating 1 year 3 months and we both know each other are the one!
Post # 9
That’s so exciting! It could be right around the corner, but maybe he is waiting to do it when you least expect it! My FI was so frustrated with me when I was waiting. I knew it was coming soon, and he badly wanted to surprise me but I was waiting for it every singel day and in turn, kind of ruined the surprise factor.
Post # 10
Yes, waiting really does stink. I knew that FI was going to be proposing at some point during the summer, and I was away at a job for most of it. He came to visit twice and both times EVERYONE would give their opinions and scenarios about how he was going to propose. And he didn’t. Honestly, I had let my friends set me up for constant dissapointment and anxiousness. He ended up proposing a couple weeks after I got home, and it really was perfect, and it happened in a way I didn’t expect. So, just enjoy life, don’t stress, and don’t try to over analyze guys. You’ll be much happier for it and when it happens you’ll be the giddiest girl 🙂
Post # 11
not to be a downer but sunday is the day before valentines day. it could be a valentines surprise.
Post # 12
Yeah I was going to say the same thing. My bf planned a surprise for me tomorrow and I got all excited but then he mentioned it was for valentines day. I know it’s not a proposal. Which isn’t to say yours isn’t but maybe just think of it as a regular date and then you won’t be disappointed if it doesn’t happen.
Post # 13
- Wedding: June 2014 - Ontario, Canada ♥ EDD- April 2016
haha you took the words right out of my mouth (:
Post # 14
You never know- good luck!!!