(Closed) Break down

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: Have you had your pre-wedding breakdown yet?
    I had that a long time ago : (1 votes)
    10 %
    I haven't yet but feel it coming on : (6 votes)
    60 %
    No way, I'm calm, cool and collected : (3 votes)
    30 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    368 posts
    Helper bee

    Oh dear!!! Relax, deep breath!!! 🙂 You’re in love, you are planning a wonderful wedding – and no detail, or person, is worth getting upset over!! When I get upset over stuff, I like to do something to help get the stress away (long walk, bath, etc.) and then think about why I’m upset and what I can do to remedy the situation….. Is it even something worth trying to fix, or shoud I just get over it?!

    Best of luck and hang in there!! Your wedding is SO SOON!!! You are going to be a beautiful bride and have the time of your life!!! 🙂

    Post # 4
    Member
    141 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: August 2009

    Oh goodness! Try not to worry! (What am I saying, I’ve had multiple wedding breakdowns already and I’m still 2 months out!)

    Really though, remember that probably half the reason everything seems so overwhelming right now is from the stress of the past many months of planning, the probable lack of sleep, and the emotionally draining-ness of a wedding overall! Everything will turn out great.

    Grab a glass of wine (or two), take a deep breath, and try to let it roll off you when people are being a pain in the arse. Some members of the hive have some great comebacks that I know I could never think of but that make me laugh–maybe they’ll weigh in here and give you something to say to those annoying peeps. Maybe also appoint someone not so stressed as you (MOH, mom, etc) to deal with last minute annoyances like people complaining–just refuse to talk to them! That’s what I plan to do. 🙂

    Congratulations on your wedding being sooo close and try to take it all in stride!! Have FUN!

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