(Closed) breaking the news… when it happens

posted 4 years ago in Proposals
Post # 3
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3736 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

I think you should just be honest. It’s only a coincidence and not a deliberate act after all. Hopefully if she’s your friend like you say, she’ll be happy for you! My only request to my friends getting married next year is not to plan it for the same weekend because I want them at my wedding and I want to be at theirs too!

Good luck and congratulations!

Post # 4
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1460 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2017 - Bristol zoo

I agree with PP 🙂 she should understand that your actions have not been born of any ill feelings. all the best for you and your upcoming plans!

Post # 5
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723 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I say go for it, regardless. If she thinks you would truly plan your wedding before hers just to spite her, than maybe she’s not as good of a friend as you think. I wouldn’t not do something in/for my wedding because of a friend, they all know me and know I would never do something to spite them!

Post # 7
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5015 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

Just tell her, don’t overthink it. 

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