(Closed) Bridal Paranoia OR Out of Line Bridesmaid

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

I don’t know about paranoid, but I think something is definately up. Just think about it this way, it is YOUR wedding and if you want grey shoes, then she should wear grey shoes. You wouldn’t ask her to compromise for her wedding, so she shouldn’t ask you to do it for yours. And you’re right, silver would look kind of strange with navy if everyone else has grey.

Post # 4
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1041 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

you are not paranoid. She has 6 months to find cheaper grey shoes, no big deal. Dont compromse, she should just get the right shoes.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

I cant stand Maids like this. Who died and made you the bride!? Unless you have feet problems, or are 9 months pregnant at my wedding…STFU and deal with it for ONE DAY!

Stick to your guns girl! =) It’ll be worth the outcome because it will be your way!

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2011

I think you are compromising bc she knows you will she is pushing you and you need to put your foot down for your sanity and for the vision of your wedding. 

Post # 7
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Newbee
  • Wedding: February 2008

Maybe you can offer to pay the price difference between the two styles – that way she’ll have no excuse for any more drama.

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