Bridal party angst

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 2
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2893 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I think you need to sit him down and get to the bottom of the situation.  Is he having a hard time narrowing down his guys?  Maybe he can have two “best men.” (girls do it all the time)  Does he just not want to tell 4 of the guys that you are slimming down the wedding party?  You can talk to him about how you talked to your girls. 

As long as you aren’t cutting them off the guest list, you can also explain to him that his friends won’t have to rent or buy special clothes, and can save their money.  And they can still do everything a wedding party would do (hang out all day, have a kicking bachlor party ect) without having the title.

Post # 3
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2685 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 1996

Has he already “downsized” to just the Best Man? If so, I think you should just keep things the way they are with “just” the maid of honor and the best man, and not re-ask people. That just seems awfully wishy-washy to me.

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