(Closed) Bridal party (MOH) – I’m down :(

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
1414 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I am sorry…..(((((Hugs)))))

Post # 4
104 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I’m so sorry!

Maybe your friend thinking about it is a good idea though. I had one of my girls think about it and we talked it over and we had a GOOD understanding before she accepted the role. She’s been one of my best bridesmaids so far!

So, I hope that works out for you similarly. Sit down and talk with her.

On the subject of your sister, my Maid/Matron of Honor is my cousin, but MUCH more like a sister. In hindsight I shouldn’t have asked her to be my MOH! She is overly competitive and wants everything to be about her, even though she already had her Cinderella wedding! So, maybe that was a blessing in disguise!

Post # 5
3569 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Sorry it sucks. I think your friend has a better excuse then your sister. Have you talked about what you expect, has she been a moh before? Either way it’s better having people who want to step into that role rather then someone whose heart isn’t it.

Post # 6
12904 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Aww, I’m so sorry!  Did your sister give you any reason about why she didn’t want to be your Maid/Matron of Honor, other than “not being right” for it?

It is a good idea to all be on the same page, though, so I really respect your other friend for admitting she needs to think about it to make sure she can juggle all her responsibilities with it.  Don’t take it as a negative; it shows she really values how important your day is and wants to be fully committed if she is to be such an important person!

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