(Closed) Bridal party regret

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
13 posts
  • Wedding: June 2012

Cut. Her. Loose.

I had issues with a bridesmaid, and I ended it.  (with only 2 weeks to go till the wedding).  A lot of Bees think I’m a bad person for doing this, but I know its not the case.  She wants to remain friends, I haven’t decided if thats something that I want too, but I know I feel so much better now that she’s out of the wedding.  It only gets worse with selfish people.  I would talk to her first, tell her how hurtful her lack of interest is to you, and ask her to do better.  If she can’t or won’t do better, then its time to cut the dead weight that is dragging you down!


Post # 4
236 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

It’s not worth ending a friendship over a wedding. 

Post # 5
368 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

If she’s not interested in participating, and doesn’t even want to be in the pictures, then why is she actually desiring to be in your bridal party? I would sit her down and have a candid conversation about it. If she can’t give you a satisfactory answer, I’d ask her to step down. It doesn’t necessarily mean the end of the friendship, especially if she doesn’t seem all the interested.

As to your Maid/Matron of Honor, have a serious heart to heart with her. She’s suppose to be your BFF, so maybe a little tough love is in order. Sometimes we don’t realize how our actions are affecting another until someone lays it out for us!

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