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    Christinela    June 19, 2010   Los Angeles

    I have 7 bridesmaids and my fiance has 7 groomsmen. I am thrilled to have them all in our wedding party, but when I actually envision the ceremony, I don't picture them all standing up besides us. I see something more intimate, with maybe just the MOH and best man standing with us, and everyone else seated. What are your thoughts on this? Is it rude to the rest of the bridal party? I would still have them walk down the aisle. We are having a ceremony that will be just under 30 minutes I think.

    I don't think this will offend any of them...maybe they'd be glad to sit and not have to only look at our backs while we get married! Does anyone have any other ideas too?

    Thanks!

     
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    hourieg    July 2010   CA

    I was just asking my sister the same question! I think I'm going to have just the MOH and Best Man standing with us. The rest will be seated. Are you going to have them walk down the aisle together? Or just the BM's alone and groomsmen lined at the altar?

     
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    Christinela    June 19, 2010   Los Angeles

    Hourieg - I am going to have them walk down the altar together just because I've always liked that look. And if they aren't going to stand the whole time, it's probably best if they groomsmen aren't standing to begin with. I am having an outdoor ceremony and I had thought of having a little section of seats off to the side where they could sit. But then I decide a few things. First, if they are seated off to the side, thye sort of have the worst seat because they can't see us. Secondly, if they are walking down the aisle together as couples, it probably looks best if they part at the end of the aisle and the guys go to the right and the girls go to the left. It might be strange to have them all walk right in front of my fiance and the officiant to get to some side seats.

    If you are having them sit, are you having them sit in the front row or the second row (or other)? I also don't want immediate family to not get a good seat just to accommodate them.

     
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    hourieg    July 2010   CA

    Well I don't have to worry about family not having enough seating. My immediate family will be seated in the front row and the BM's can sit in the second row behind them .. I have four very thin BM's .. they'll manage to squeeze in somewhere :)

     

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