- 7 years ago
- Wedding: October 2012
My FI doesn’t want a big bridal party, but he has two best men. I wanted my brother to be a groomsman and it was a given that we would include his sister as a bridesmaid. My sister is the Maid of honor and that was going to be it.
Now, all of a sudden, I’m starting to want a third girl.
I realized today that I could add a Matron of honor and that would be perfect since there are already two best men! One of my best friends, who really wants to be a bridesmaid is married so again, it works perfect.
Enter my issue….I have another best friend who I am worried may be insulted if I don’t ask her. I was a bridesmaid in her party and she is just as good a friend to me as the first. I just, for several reasons would prefer the first and don’t want to add any more people to the bridal party.
I know you will all say to do what I want but I’m feeling very stressed about it. What would you do???