(Closed) Bridal regret

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
69 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2013



your wedding will be perfect.

1. personally i think themes can be too regimented. An ‘idea’, no matter what it is will flow better.

2. you picked your dress because you love it!! It is a wedding dress therefore it is romantic πŸ™‚

3. All my bridesmaids could not be more different – size, hair, colour etc. i love them because they are different πŸ™‚ they are wearing diffent styles in the same colour and it will look amazing!

4. small wedding equals intimate and with those you love. they wont expect alcohol and they can buy their own anyhow! They love you and their concern will be that you and your OH have the most amazing day of your lives πŸ™‚


Keep smiling it will all work out! xxxxx

Post # 4
1902 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I freak out about this all the time! It doesn’t help that I actually am throwing things together, and fiance’s parents are very traditional and judgemental. All I can do is remember that the reason for the day is to marry my best friend, not to impress a bunch of guests – if they really are there to support our marriage, they won’t give a crap what colour the table cloths are, or what the food is.

Post # 5
2651 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Ohhhh someone apparently is posting from inside my head!!! OP this regret/panic hits me all of the time. Just last night I had to do a five minute un-freaking-out exercise with Fiance to help me feel good about my dress again. (Ordered it from FabulousU with major alterations and am waiting to see how it turns out.) What if the flowers aren’t as pretty as I want? What if the food isn’t great? What if people don’t like the cake we order? What if what if what if…


What if everyone is blown away by how beautiful you are in your dress?

What if your Fiance can’t take his eyes off of you as you walk down the aisle and for the rest of the day/night?

What if the not-exact color matches all come together in a gorgeous burst of colors in your photos?

What if people end up having an easier time talking and mixing and sharing time with you because it’s a smaller reception?

Some what ifs can be positive and relaxing. Your wedding will be a wonderful celebration, and you’ll have such a lovely time and create lovely memories. Whenever the regrets start to creep in, turn it around and think of all the good things πŸ™‚

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