Bridal shower

posted 3 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
374 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

Are you inviting everyone else from the church shower to the wedding? I think a church or work shower are types of showers where it’s okay to have people there that aren’t invited to the wedding, but not just one person and invite everyone else. You didn’t ask her to plan the shower, and since they probably do this for lots of people they probably don’t expect a wedding invitation.

Post # 4
351 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

If you don’t want to invite then to the wedding then I would decline her offer to plan you a bridal shower. Everyone invovled in planning and present at the bridal shower should be invited to the wedding. It’s rude to have people at a gift giving event for you but not at the wedding. 

If you want her involved, then extend the invitation. I personally, from the sound of the story, would probably decline her help. 

Post # 5
11772 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

If your Church bridal party is thrown by a commitee of women, I wouldn’t feel obligated to invite her specifically (but you also can’t invite all of them BUT her).


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