- 7 years ago
- Wedding: September 2011
So, when I first got engaged, My mother and my MOH asked if I wanted a bridal shower and/or bachelorette party. At first I was negative on the bridal shower, but after I went to two other bridal showers, I changed my mind and said sure. Since then minimal planning (aka pretty much none) has been done, however, they kept asking me about aspects of it. I basically said, “I dont care, I dont need anything crazy, I just dont want to be the one planning it”. Finally it’s a little over a month to the wedding and after I had to bring it up again, every conversation seems to start with “There’s not much time left” . . . they indicated that they wanted to throw me a bridal shower and a bacholerette, but I feel like they expect me to do everything. On one hand, i feel like it is my own fault, because I only have a Maid/Matron of Honor and opted to not have bridesmaids. However, I have girlfriends who are helping out with different aspects of the event. Is it wrong that I am feeling really down about this? Im also trying not to get too angry, but i have done alot of planning for everything, and would like some aspects to be planned without my participation.