(Closed) Bridal Shower at 2… not excited.

posted 7 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

I had bridal shower drama too because of my fiance’s sister causing nothing but problems. I admit it was awkward, but it was only because I let it be– or rather, I let myself focus on that. Everyone was focused on me, and the only awkwardness was people not talking as much (because everyone knew there was an “elephant in the room”!). I mean, I can’t say it won’t be awkward for you, but at the same time, it helped that I had a couple drinks right after I got there, got to talking to people, and honestly, before I knew it the party was over! But yeah it bugged me for a bit that it wasn’t what I envisioned (the happiness part) but when I sought out similar situations I found many… a lot of drama unfolds with the wedding stuff and the parties are not always what you hope for! You’re so not alone! But… I know, it doesn’t make it easier.

Also I think if you don’t have anything new to wear maybe you could buy some new accessories to dress it up a bit? I almost didn’t find anything, there’s a lot of deals at places like Macys that have really nice dresses.

Another thing too is don’t forget the people that know NOTHING of the drama! They’re kind of a saving grace, they break up the awkwardness a bit

Post # 5
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2083 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Bridal shower drama sucks for sure. Not all of my bridesmaids knew each other super well and some of them ended up being jerks about helping to pay for it (there were 7 total so I had thought it would be better because then they would have to pay less since there were more people to contribute). It hurt my feelings a lot, but I just tried not to focus on that part. Once I was able to just ignore that it ended up being an amazing day.

Now I’m on the other side of the table planning a bridal shower for someone else. There’s only 3 of us and one of them refused to tell me how much she’d be contributing until a couple of weeks ago (making it a month and a half before the shower) so that was really annoying. Luckily I’ve been through the whole wedding thing before and don’t really know this girl very well so wasn’t going to let her off the hook/take crap so I straightened it out with her very quickly. Don’t know why people get so dang weird when they are a bridesmaid. Its like don’t sign up for the job if you aren’t willing to put in the work. Then some people say “Well if they’ve never done it before then they might just now be learning what it entails” – definitely don’t have patience for that… If you didn’t know what it meant to be a bridesmaid before you said you’d do it, that’s your own problem for not figuring it out.

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