Post # 1
Ok, so I have two showers this weekend (yes, two in the same weekend, Saturday and Sunday.. Going to be super busy).
My wedding isn’t until November 23rd, invitations were mailed out this morning but I feel like it’s rude to invite people to a shower if they haven’t received their wedding invitation yet but I had no say in the planning or really when it was… Both of these hostesses said this particular weekend was the only weekend either of them could do anything before the wedding or I wouldn’t have showers at all. So of course I let them plan them.
Do you think the guests will think I’m rude? I’ve heard from both hostesses that not many people are showing up to either, which is disappointing because I was really looking forward to bridal shower time.
Post # 3
@dreamer1288: No, I don’t think that people will think you are rude unless they later do not get an invitation — then, they might think you are rude.
Post # 4
@inky_1: Yeah, I’ve made sure that no guests were added to the shower lists that weren’t originally on our wedding guest list. I just hope there aren’t any surprise guests lol.
Post # 5
- Wedding: January 2013 - Harbourfront Grand Hall
@dreamer1288: I once got a shower invite before the wedding invite and it was odd…. Of course it wasn’t someone who’s wedding I thought I would be invited to. And then the invitation arrived a few days after the shower. I thought why not just send the wedding invite out the same day or a day before the shower invites?
But with your wedding still being a ways away I think it’s fine!