(Closed) bridal shower favors

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
215 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

i’ve thought about this too!   For your BMs, maybe you can tell them how much you appreciate their efforts and that you want to help by providing a thank you to everyone in their honor (the way they’re throwing a party in your honor) by putting together some favors for guests (and get them something special as a thank you too).  or, you could just really be there for everyone who attends when it’s their special day (baby, wedding, new job, whatever).  from reading the boards, it seems like the best thank you is being there when it’s their turn.

Post # 5
1465 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

The bridesmaids who are hosting the shower are responsible for everything from food to invites to favors (which are optional). The bride is the guest of honor and doesn’t have any part in the planning or paying for it, but in the end, any final decision is entirely up to the bridesmaids/hostesses. Also, whatever they decide to spend is strictly their business. On your part however, the thank you notes are sufficient and should be mailed out asap.

Post # 6
3762 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

I really don’t see a problem with it as long as you talk to the showrr hosts first. I agree with the PP that it should still be thanks on their behalf.

If that doesn’t work, what about sending or handing the favors out with the thank you cards/notes?

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