Bridal Shower gift amount?

posted 2 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 2
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2013

 

that is a perfect amount.  whatever you feel comfortable giving is what you should give.

Post # 3
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Busy bee

I think that amount is very appropriate. I normally spend about $40 on a shower gift because I like having a little more money to spend on a wedding gift. 

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I think $40 or $50 is totally appropriate for a bridal shower, but I wonder why she is bothering with a bridal shower at all if she doesn’t want you to buy gifts.

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

That’s totally appropriate. I was going to suggest something around $50 for the shower.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

You’re already spending so much money on other things, I wouldn’t be embarrassed to spend 25$ if youre on a budget. Are you also planning to buy a wedding gift? 

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

I usually spend about $40 on shower gifts. However, if that it stretching your budget I think it’s perfectly fine to give a lower amount. I was a bit surprised to receive gifts from my bridal party because of the costs associated with being in my wedding so I think any gift would be generous.

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

$50 is a pretty typical amount, especially if money is at all tight or you’re spending a lot on the wedding, etc.

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I had my bridal shower recently and was so surprised to receive gifts from my bridesmaids! Given all the work and expense they applied to hosting the vent, the last thing I expected was for them to give me a gift as well.

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Aly7489:  I think that’s a perfect amount 🙂 I had a few of my bridesmaids give me $50 for the bridal shower and then $50 for the wedding…I didn’t expect wedding presents from any of them considering they paid for dresses/shoes…but it was still a sweet gesture!  If you are looking to give her a wedding gift you can always do something like that. I don’t think there’s a reason to spend more than that for a shower gift though.

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