(Closed) Bridal shower & having a pity party

posted 6 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
35 posts

Totally understand your being sad (and not mad). Just disappointed, huh? Perhaps a positive way to look at it is that you’ll have a cozy group who can really spend some quality time with you. There are still a good number of people coming for YOU to celebrate your big day. They could be out doing other things that day, but they are coming to be with you! 🙂

You could have another shower with a bunch of those who weren’t around for this one. Perhaps make it a little different, have someone host it at a fun restaurant and have a girls evening of it.


Just some thoughts!

Post # 4
12882 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

It’ll be great!  Don’t worry about how many people are there, just enjoy your lovely shower!

Post # 5
3081 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Honestly, I think that’s a great number! You will really get to spend good quality time with them and enjoy the presents from each and every one (if you are doing presents). I had too many at mine to really do much more than chat for a minute or two before moving to the next guest. 

Don’t worry, you are loved! 

Post # 6
428 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I can see how you would feel a little sad about having only 10 of you there but try and think positive.

I would prefer a more intimate bridal shower but have to invite all the ladies out of courtesy. There’s about 50. Its so overwhelming…

Cheer up and enjoy your bridal shower.

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