posted 7 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
318 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Both are acceptable.  Obviously something like lingerie I would keep just female and exclude older guests unless you’re really comfortable with them.  I like co-ed showers because the Fiance gets included and if you have a lot of friends of the other gender.  For those, it’s cool to have like a BBQ and a theme like “around the house” or something!

Post # 4
4583 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

My personal preference is co-ed. I want Fiance to be there with me for my shower because I don’t really like being the center of attention and I think co-ed showers tend to be more laidback and fun.

Post # 5
3049 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 1991

I don’t want to have a shower with my Fiance or with any other guys. To me, I want to enjoy the time with my female guests. Especially since we’ll be talking about marriage, etc. I like having that time without guys getting bored (as they usually do). I would rather have the all-female shower, and then for dinner have a BBQ with all the guys. This is coming from someone who gets along with guys more than girls. Go figure! 🙂

Post # 6
5786 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2011

I prob would have voted co-ed a month ago, but my shower was ladies only from 3-6 and the guys joined us for dinner which I thought was a good compromise. Guys dont want to watch you unwrap dishes and stand mixers.

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