- 8 years ago
- Wedding: October 2010
Long time lurker . . . First time poster!
Bees, I need your help! I am attending my first wedding shower this weekend, and am not sure what to do about thank you notes for my shower hostesses. They have already sent a (very generous) gift to my fiance and I, and I had been planning on writing one thank you note to each hostess — to thank them for the gift and also for hosting the shower. I was planning on giving the hostesses the thank you note at the shower, along with a thank you gift.
Do you think this is proper etiquette, or should I give each two thank you notes — one for hosting the shower and another for the shower gift? And if so, should I give them both notes at the shower? It just seems weird to write two thank you notes at the same time, for the same event.