Post # 1
WEll so i am writting because at this moment i dont know what else to do to distract myself from the major extreme drama two of my bridesmaids have caused me ! my wedding is this weekend and since sunday they have been super rude sending nasty facebook posts to eachother about me and my wedding! Yesterday i asked them to let me know if they were so unconfortable they didnt need to be part of the wedding they both exploted along with another one of the friends who has absolutely nothing to do with my bridal party ,telling me to go to hell along with my wedding that i am fake and so on! i have 7 bridesmaids and these two are the only ones who think im being bridezilla i honestly am sick of the situation they called me names text me nonstop like we were in the 4th grade ! one of these girls got married two months ago and i was a bridesmaid i did everything needed threw her bachelorette went to every shower helped her financially and now i get this the week of my wedding they were both never around for any of the planning or helping with the wedding they came up with excuses always too busy or so on! DOes anyone have any way to distress fm this im a few days awaY and dnt knw how to deal with this any lonGER!
Post # 3
Eliminate this negativity from your day ASAP!! Tell them they better not show up or they will be asked to leave.
Post # 4
@mel_pedraza: My wedding is this Saturday also. I have had some “friends” start acting funny after the wedding planning began too. I think that you should just begin to think of the real reason for the day…it’s for you to become one with your love! Noone else really matters at this point and it’s just about you two. Start getting tunnel vision girl, and I think it’ll help you a lot. It has helped me!! Congrats and enjoy YOUR big day!!
Post # 5
These girls sound horrible! I am so sorry you are going through this. Would it be easiest to just say look girls you obviously don’t want to be a positive part of this wedding so why don’t you save us all the headache and just forget it?
I mean who do these girls think they are? So what if you even are being a little bit of a bridezilla…you’re getting married next weekend so obviously you are going to be a little stressed. It is so unfiar of these girls to make things harder on you.
I would trying talking it out one more time if you have that in you, otherwise cut these girls loose! I know personally I could never ruin my friend’s big day even if she was being the bitch of the century (not saying you are!).
Just be calm and try to stay positive. Everything works out how it should in the end. Stay happy girl! It’s your day!
Post # 6
thanks it really helps ! girls to knw that other ppl think like me and im not wrng for kicking them out of my life ! =) i will enJoy every moment of the end of planning and i dnt care if theres noone there but Mr. Reggs and i! thanX !!!!!!!