- 8 years ago
- Wedding: December 2010
I was asked to be a bridesmaid, and while I was honored, I really felt like I was just a spot filler. We all went shopping for dresses the other day and agreed on a dress. Then they went again on another day to a retailer close to me but didn’t call me, because it was ‘spontaneous’. (I am currently NOT working, and they all know that). They all picked another bridesmaid dress which is fine, because I saw it online and liked it, but I really feel unwanted as a bridesmaid. I’m not sure how to feel about this. I want to help the bride, but it won’t be possible if these things keep happening. Any suggestions?