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    Firegirl    October 16, 2010   Rochester, NY

    My fiance and I are paying for our wedding but we would like to include our parents on the invite. His parents are divorced and my father is deceased but I really want to include this on the invite. Is it wrong to put something like:

    Miss Smith

    and

    Mr. Jones

    request the honour of your presence at their marriage.

    Miss smith is the daughter of Sue Smith and the late Bill Smith. Mr. Jones is the sone of Bob Jones and Mary Brady.

    Then include the date, time , place etc? Please help!

     
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    FMILady    June 6, 2010   Texas

    I think that's very nice of you- it would have made your Dad smile.

     
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    MissAsB    June 6, 2009   Married in CO, Living in AL

    The wording sort of sounds like an announcement more than an invitation in the last paragraph but if it works for you, then go for it!

     
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    bethesdabride    October 9, 2010   Arlington, VA/Bethesda, MD

    We haven't finalized our wording, but both of our fathers have passed away. We'll probably do something like "Together with our mothers, bethesdabride & MrBethesda request the honor..." We'll have our parents, both late fathers and mothers listed by name in the program.

    Your approach would be fine, I'm sure. It does read a little bit like a wedding announcement rather than an invite, but people will know its an invite, so it's not something to stress over I wouldnt think.

     
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    Mrs.KMM    July 17, 2010   Atlanta, GA (wedding in Indianapolis, IN)

    Maybe something like this would make it sound less like an announcement and more like an invitation:

    Miss Smith

    daughter of Sue Smith and the late Bill Smith

    and

    Mr. Jones

    son of Bob Jones and Mary Brady

    request the honour of your presence at their marriage.

     date, time, place, etc

     
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    MissKatelyn    July 9, 2011   Live in Westchester, NY / wedding near Portland, OR

    Yep, I like FutureKMM's idea! I saw that on a couple websites too.

     
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    Firegirl    October 16, 2010   Rochester, NY

    I was going to do what future KMM suggested but then our names wouldn't be together which you see on most invitations that is why I changed it. Thanks for all the help everyone! For some reason this is giving me the most grief about my wedding!

     
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    ebs1123    July 9, 2010   Omaha NE

    Could you start with "together with their parents,brides parents and groom's parents," then go to "bride and groom request..."?

    We had a similar issue, my FI's father is deceased, but my parents are hosting. We did

    "brides parents request the honor of your presence at the marriage of

    bride and

    groom

    son of mother, stepfather and the late father"

     
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    hergreenapples    October 23, 2010   Ontario, Canada

    My MOH got married last year and her father is deceased her invitations said,

    Mrs.Mother of the Bride, and Mr.Father of the bride in spirit,

    request the honour of your presence

    at the wedding of their daughter

    Bride's Name

    to

    Groom's Name

    Son of Mr. Father of the Groom and Mrs. Father of the Groom

     

    I thought that was a really nice way of handling it.

     
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    Kimberly1010    October 3, 2010   New York

    Wow, these are some great ideas....I was just dealing with this myself since my father passed away 6 years ago. I really wanted to include him in my wedding invites as it seems strange not to.

     
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    Kimberly1010    October 3, 2010   New York
     

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