(Closed) Brides, how many maid/matron of honors and bridesmaids are you having?

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

I’m having 1 MOH and 5 other BMs so a total of 6. He has 1 BM and 5 GM.

we are inviting about 230 people and guaranteed our venue a minimum of 150 people. I have seen bridal parties of all different sizes and I wouldnt worry if it looks weird. I cant imagine anyone would care.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

We have 115 guests about and have 1 maid of honor and 3 brides maids, 1 best man and 3 groomsmen

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

The wedding party should be what u and ur FI want and are comfortable with. I have 2 MOH and 5 bridesmaids and FI has 4 groomsmen including his BM for our 150 person wedding  

Post # 6
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I don’t think this is strange at all. I think it would be silly to include people in your wedding party just to “bulk it up” πŸ˜‰ Trust your heart.

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

100 guests – one best man and one maid of honor.

We are working on a budget – plus if I started asking friends to be bridesmaids I don’t know where it would end. Much more practical just to have one, and avoid hurt feelings all around.

Post # 8
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

Your wedding party can be whatever you want.  In fact, smaller parties are almost always less drama. 

I personally had one MOH, and 3 bridesmaids, and my husband had a best man and two groomsmen.  I thought that was a pretty good size, but I wouldn’t add people just for the sake of having a larger party.

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Not even engaged yet, but I have always known that on my wedding day I only want one person (besides SO) standing up there with me, and that’s my big sister. 

 

Post # 10
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

250 guests. One MOH, two bridesmaids.

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I’m sure it will look fine! It’s when you have a large bridal party and a small guest count that it get s alittle funy. πŸ˜› The other way around is no problem at all!

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

We’ll have about 70 guests with 2 bridesmaids and 2 groomsmen

Post # 13
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

If you just start adding people u may have some of the situations that I read about on here every day.

Post # 14
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Newbee

@bzzzybee:  Stick with one attendant for you and your FI.  Seriously.  Everything will be less complicated, and your guests won’t even think about the number in your bridal party.  Nothing wrong with keeping it simple!

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@bzzzybee:  I would say it’s your day and you should have as many or as few attendants as both you want and your budge will allow. πŸ™‚ My FI and I are having 5 attendants each but we wanted to have both friends and family members to stand for us! πŸ™‚ And we are having about 150 (invited) but about 100 actually coming. πŸ™‚ 

Post # 16
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Bumble bee

Perfectly ok x…We are  having my kids..My three daughters and my son..a poodle and a pomeranian lol

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