Post # 1
I feel really weird typing this but I always dreamed of all my girls and I living it up before I hit the path of marital status but I just found girl one of my bridesmaids are expecting, which I’m totally stoked for!!! And my Maid/Matron of Honor isn’t a party girl, whee as I am. I’m worried that I’m gonna get the short end of the stick when it comes to my thoughts of living it big before the big day. Am I being totally selfish or have any one else experienced this? What did you do?
Post # 3
I have been through the same thing! My Maid/Matron of Honor isn’t a big drinker, and my other bridesmaid was pregnant (but didn’t tell anyone) worse thing was I didn’t find this all out till during my hen weekend. My advice after my experience is ask a friend that enjoys the same things as yourself but obviouslywho’s will want your bridesmaid there so organise something that everyone can do and everyone has the option of drinking or not.
I hope this is of some help.
Post # 4
You still have a ways to go before bachelorette planning begins.
When people ask you what you want to do, let them know. Just because the Maid/Matron of Honor isn’t a big partier doesn’t mean she won’t make an exception for one evening.