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  • poll: If you could do it again, would you make Your Bouquet and Bridal Party Bouquets?
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    Luvbug6315    8-8-09  

    If you could do it all over, would you do it again? Did you also make the whole bridal parties bouquets and was it worth the savings?

     
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    rosychicklet    September 27, 2008   Boston, MA

    I would definitely do it again. For all of my flowers (100 roses, greens, spray roses, and hypericum berry) I spent less than $150 (delivery was free from Blooms by the Box).

    The Thursday before the wedding the flowers arrived and my sister and I prepped them all (trimming, dethorning, etc). The flowers that would be for the ceremony (just in vases) were arranged.

    The night before the wedding I did my hand tied bouquet. I arranged it in a vase and then gathered it up and wired it.  I also wrapped it in ribbon and attached my rosary to it. Then I left it sitting in a vase with water.

    The morning of the wedding, I got up, washed my hair and then sat to do the rest of the flowers while my hair dried.

    I started with the BM bouquets (4 of them).I had purchased tussie mussies (http://www.weddingdepot.com/catalog/default.php/category/Tussy%2BMussy/cPath/23_52?source=google&kw=tussymussy) for their flowers, they were only $7 a piece. I used some floral clay to make sure they were snug in the holders and wouldn't fall out. It worked well, because even one BMs 2 year old didn't manage to ruin it.

    Then I made 7 bouts (2 dads, 1 groom, 4 GMs). I had ordered bud pins for theirs (only $2 a piece)- again using floral clay to keep them in place.

    All told- flowers and supplies I spent well under $200.

    (The mom's got floral broaches in lieu of live flowers)

    Disclaimer: I worked in a flower shop in high school and had some experience with handling large quantities of flowers. Still, I practiced several times in advance of the wedding so I knew exactly what I was doing.  Also- I ordered a little extra- I gave the extras to my DoC and she used them throughout the reception.

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    TechGirl    June 27, 2009   Canada

    Wow, amazing work! I'm planning on doing the flowers myself, with the help of FMIL and FSIL. You've made me feel more confident about doing it. Thanks!

     
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    driftslikesmoke    January 2, 2010   Atlanta, GA

    Wow, those are great! Do any other diy flower brides have images to share? :)

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    Luvbug6315    8-8-09  

    Rosey- Sounds like you did quite a few the day of-and they look so nice- I have 6 BM's so i'd be making 6 and then mine... i'm kind of debating right now if it would be worth the extra stress... because it certainly would save some money....

    yeah, I would totally love to see other DIY bouquets... ladies, please share!

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    penguin    June 7, 2008   Berkeley, Ca

    I planned on making my own, and at the last second opted out.  I'm glad I did opt out... I had WAY too much on my plate the day before the wedding!

     
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    maureen9004    August 2008  

    I made my own!  I wish I would have given myself a little more time (I was super busy), but if I had to do it again, I would still make it.  It saved me a ton of money, and I was pretty happy with the finished product. 

     

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    Luvbug6315    8-8-09  

    oh, that is so pretty maureen!

    Penguin- I have a feeling I will be opting out of making them as well. 

     
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    blossom    10/16/2009   Seattle, WA

    Wow, those are beautiful, Rosy and Maureen!   I found a place to buy flowers in bulk and will be attempting to make my own bouquets.. we'll see how it goes.  Thanks for sharing your pictures!

     
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    rosychicklet    September 27, 2008   Boston, MA

    If you do hand tied bouquets and don't wrap the ribbon all the way to the end (you can see stems peeking out near my hand) you can make all the bouquets the day before (maybe even 2 days before- when you practice check them 24 and 48 hours later and see how the flowers are holding up) and just put them in a vase with water.

    I would have done that with the BM bouquets, but they were in the tussie mussies, so it wasn't an option.

    I don't want to know what all my flowers would have cost me if I went through a florist.

    I actually found it calming to do the flowers the morning of the wedding.  Since I had practiced several times, I knew exactly what I was doing- so that wasn't stressful.

    Just sitting and arranging the flowers was quite calming for me (I was up first- the rest of the family was asleep, so it was peaceful).

    And it was nice to be able to write a little note to my husband for him to find when the bouts were delivered to the guys!

     
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    driftslikesmoke    January 2, 2010   Atlanta, GA

    Lovely work, rosychicklet!! Where did you get that gorgeous silver holder in the next-to-last pic?

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    GoIzzy    August 23, 2008   Detroit

    As a florist I had to do my own, since I have really high expectations and I am way too picky to deal with others. 

    I would not recommend that tho since it is a headache like no other. I was up till 4am the day before the wedding trying to do all my flowers just the way I wanted them and in the end I still had to compromise... egh

    If i would ever do this again I would pay, I would pay a lot.... but I would pay somebody to do it. haha  

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    rosychicklet    September 27, 2008   Boston, MA

    driftslikesmoke- I actually got it from Oriental Trading Co. and they were only $7 a piece!  I don't think they have them anymore.  They are called tussie mussies.

    After I had already purchased those I found a large selection of much nicer ones (almost more expensive!).

    http://www.weddingdepot.com/catalog/default.php/category/Tussy%2BMussy/cPath/23_52?source=google&kw=tussymussy

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    Luvbug6315    8-8-09  

    wow.. everyone's bouquets looks Amazing.

     

    Rosie- Thanks for the tip about the day before.  

     
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    Crash    09/09  

    Rosie, those look so great!

    I am thinking of doing my own but I'm a bit nervous about bouts... I think since they are actually affordable through florists I might go pro for that part, even if just getting them from a grocery.

     
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    driftslikesmoke    January 2, 2010   Atlanta, GA

    Thanks for the tip! I might have to get some Tussie Mussies for the bouquets at my wedding. Though, in January, they might get really really cold. They're just so pretty!

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    Amber1279    09-12-09   Arizona

    I am planning on doing my own bouquet.  I want something like this.  Is it going to be to hard??

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    rosychicklet    September 27, 2008   Boston, MA

    Amber- I don't think it will be too hard.  The only challenge I can think of is that you might have to wire wrap the center most flowers.  A lot of sun flowers are bent at the top (like a shepard's hook), so to get the flowers in the middle of the bouquet to face upwards- instead of to the side- you may have to wrap the stems with floral wire.

    Also just something to keep in mind- the petals of the sunflower are pretty delicate.  My sister's bouquet included sunflowers and after being handled and passed around, by the end of the ceremony, some of the sunflowers were looking a little beat up.

    If you are concerned about wire wrapping the sunflowers, you may want to include some other flowers that can fill the center and have the sunflowers on the sides.  That's what the florist that did my sister's flowers did. 

    Here's a photo of the flowers from my sister's wedding (these are not DIY), but do incorporate sunflowers.

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    hirsche    October 11, 2009   Orlando, FL

    Gorgeous work ladies. I am 95% sure i am going to DIY and have already practiced a few times. I love those sunflowers! (they are high on my flower list for my october wedding!) Thanks for the tip about wrapping them!

     
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    dmitchell08    October 2009   Baltimore

    I too plan on arranging my own flowers. The pictures are stunning ladies. I do have a question, I rosychicklet you mentioned dethorning the roses. Is there a special process or tool for this? Also someone mentioned (this might be you again Rosychicklet) if you don't wrap the ribbon all the way down that you can do them 2 days before is this because they are sitting in water during this time?

    Last question I promise folks has anyone heard of putting them in the Fridge to help the flowers keep?

     

     

     
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    hwong14    May 24, 2009   Louisville, KY

    Fridge is fine for completed arrangements/bouquets (that's what the florists do, up to 2 days prior), except you cannot have ANY food in it! Apples are well known for making flowers "ripen" faster, because they give off ethylene gas. I'm not sure about other foods. If you have a totally empty refrigerator, go for it.

    As for me, I'm going to blast the AC for a few days (I still think the extra cooling bill for those two days will be less money than hiring a florist!), and I might get some dry ice packs, too (one of my local grocery stores randomly sells them, right where the ice cooler by the door is) to help keep the room cool, and keep the room with all the flowers closed off.

    At the florist I used to work at, all the flowers except the roses were kept outside in the showroom during the day, and put in the refrigerator over night (the roses were always kept in the fridge). So flowers can handle a few days of up and down temps!

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    angee524    September 6, 2008   Missouri

    I ordered my mini callas online and put them together two days before the wedding. I liked the way they turned out but I wish I had gotten the hypericum berries that I wanted. I would definitely do my own flowers again.

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    Gerbera    August 7, 2010   NY

    I plan to DIY the bouquets and centerpieces also. I have 17 months to go so this summer I will be testing out the bouquet and centerpieces. Re-enacting how I will be making & preserving them for the wedding. IE making them two days before the wedding, they will sit in fridge (we have a empty fridge in the garage) then cooler for 6 hrs on the drive to the venue. Then leave them out on our patio for X hours (Like the day of the wedding) and see how they last. I have also heard of a product called crowning glory that is suppose to help the flowres keep, so will be trying that has well.

    I have the help of my FMIL who knows a lot about flowers so that is useful.

    And time to test out trials and time durations. Definitely do test trials. I honestly believe this will be one of the major money savers. Wedding flowers are SO overpriced! Also check to see if you have any local wholesale florists, that way you can see what you are buying.

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    MaybeeBecca    August 22, 2009   Kansas City, MO

    Thanks for the tips on the sunflowers! I'm thinking about using those for my August wedding, too, so that helps.

     
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    FloridaMel    May 20th 2009   Orlando, Fl

    Great Post! All the flowers are beautiful! I am so happy for the Blooms by the Box rec. I'm going to order mine today!!

     
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    lilcfitness    4/4/09   Edmond, OK

    Girls they all look amazing!! You are all so talented! I would have never guessed they were DIY, they look professional!

     
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    bvig    September 2009   wedding in NJ

    It was easier and more fun than I thought it would be.  Mine was a mix of white hydrangeas, sunflowers, and white and mango callas, as well as some fillers.  The bridesmaids were either sunflowers or mango callas.

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    jingle96    May 28, 2010   DW in ARUBA/livin' in VA

    I love the pictures of the DIY bouquets!  I'm having a DW so I can't make my own (I want real flowers).  But I did make the guys bouts out of shells!  The Fi even helped!

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    stephinPA    October 29, 2010   Reading, PA

    Bees - you inspire me.  I'm teetering with the idea.

     
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    ktbabe    July 17, 009   Indiana

    DIYing your flowers is SO worth it!!! Not only do you save money, it just means so much more! I don't regret it for a second! We did all of own flowers...bouquets, bouts, ceremony and reception decs.

     
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    Laylabelle    November 7, 2009  

    You ladies did a great job! I just bought a cheap bouquet today at the grocery store to practice with. 

    @Maureen and Angee - where did you get your flowers from? 

    @Rosy - that's a terrific price! I'm going to check Blooms by the Box! 

     
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    ejs4y8    June 20, 2009  

    Wow ladies! Impressive!

    I DIY'd too but I used silks b/c of my allergies. They were done in, oh, February? =]. Nobody could tell they weren't real. And honestly, I had someone come up to me and touch my bridesmaids bouquet this weekend to see if they were real or not. They were, but nowadays, you can't even tell unless you put your nose in them!

     
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    meg1223    June 6, 2009   Tampa, FL

    Me, my mom, and 2 of my bridesmaids did all the flowers for our wedding and I would definitely do it again. As rosychicklet said, I found it soothing and relaxing arranging flowers the morning of the wedding. We made my bouquet, 4 bridesmaid bouquets, 1 bout, and 7 centerpieces using pink rananculus, white rananculus, white hydrangea, and pink hypericum berries. The day before the wedding we made the centerpieces and then made all the bouquets the morning of the wedding. I must have saved a ton of money because I only spent $400 on all the flowers for the whole wedding (I can't say exactly how much I saved because I never got a quote from a florist).

     

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    Dragonsus    December 19, 2009   Lexington KY

    Phew! THANK YOU ROSY!!!

    I've been in a panic since the flower budget was getting so out of hand!  Now my mother, sister and a bridesmaid have volunteered to help so we're going to order flowers, and make them a couple of days before.  it helps that I'm getting married first thing Saturday Morning.  I may not hang out much at the rehearsal dinner, but I am much more confident about the finished product after reading this post! Thank you for all the inspiration and encouragement!

     
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    bridget_124    July 24, 2010  

    For those of you DIY flower girls, where did you order your flowers from?  Is there an online place that sells great flowers for cheap?  I'm on a budget too and would really like to save my parents some money.  I checked into pricing last week from a floral place my SIL works at and it was outragious!  Any tips would be much appreciated!  Thanks!

     
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    AnnieAAA    October 25, 2009   Dallas, TX

    Wow Meg & Rosey, those are awesome! I'm glad to see majority of the votes go to "absolutely" that is really empowering! Esp since I plan to DIY all my bouquets, boots, and centerpeices!

     
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    meg1223    June 6, 2009   Tampa, FL

    Annie-thanks so much for the compliment!

    I ordered all my flowers from The Flower Exchange. I researched all the other online flower sites and this one had the cheapest price for the flowers I knew I wanted to order. Good luck everyone-have no fear-it can be done!!!

     
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    JoonBee    06/2010  

    Wow the bouquets look great!  I was thinking about doing them myself to save the money, but due to the nature of flowers (they wilt or what not so they can only be done 1-2 days before the wedding), I am lessinging my stress by going to a florist. While I am decent with crafts, I have absolutely no experience with making bouquets, and I don't want to chance it.  After looking at you gals' bouquet, though, it's so tempting...  lol GJ, girls!

     
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    rosychicklet    September 27, 2008   Boston, MA

    Bridget- I used www.bloomsbythebox.com for my flowers.  They were very reasonable and I was very happy with the quality of the flowers.

     

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