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    I am not sure if I want a veil. The one's I tried on I didn't like, but I'm having a big Church wedding and feel like I need one. Are any other brides going veil-less?

     
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    brideatbeach    June 4, 2011  

    I think you're fine to not wear a veil. I also tried some and felt kind of silly, to be honest with you! I am not wearing one, although I am having a smaller, outdoor wedding. I am wearing flowers in my hair, but my wedding is a smaller outdoor ceremony and will be much more casual than a large church wedding.

    There are lots of pretty crystal hair combs and hair pieces you could wear instead that would be elegant enough for a church wedding. Go with what you are comfortable with. :)

     
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    VagabondGurl    August 7, 2010   Wedding: NH; Living: CA

    I'm not wearing a veil....  however we're having a casual DIY wedding and our ceremony is outdoors in a gazebo.  I've made a wreath for my hair with bark covered wire and faux flowers.

     
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    Laylabelle    November 7, 2009  

    I didn't wear one, but I got married in a 1920's theater, not a church. I think it'd be fine!

     
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    Daisylynn    August 22, 2010   Monterey, California

    I'm still trying to figure out if I want to wear a veil too.  I think brideatbeach had a great sugestion of wearing a comb.  I think one with some sparkle would lean towards the formality of a church wedding, but still allow you not to be bothered with a veil.

     
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    bluespurrs    August 7, 2009   South-central PA, USA, Earth

    I wore a Victorian tea hat instead of a veil.

     
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    sanj    May 28, 2011  

    I don't plan on wearing one although my MIL thinks otherwise. I think it's not 'me' so I probably will just wear some sort of hair piece or birdcage of some sort.

     
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    blondeeebuckeye    February 2011   Austin, TX

    im not wearing one either. i put one on and thought it made me look like i was 18 (and im 26). nixed that idea immediately.

    i'm looking at ribbon headbands with jewels, just havent found the one im gonna purchase yet :)

     
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    edisonsgirl    October 2, 2010  

    None for me either. I think I look weird with it on.

     
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    gill84    August 28, 2010   Montreal/Halifax, Canada

    I'm thinking of wearing a flower in my hair. I'm also still on the fence about a veil. My wedding is in a traditional venue (church) but I don't really feel that I'm formal enough for a veil.

     
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    baldor1    May 7, 2012   Southern California

    I haven't decided yet but I never pictured myself in a veil and probably won't wear one. However, I will be wearing flowers in my hair.

     
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    Mrs. DG    July 18, 2009   Seattle/Tahoe

    I went veil-less.  I ended up being too claustrophobic in my veil.  I think I looked fine without it.brides without a veil :  wedding Dress In Doorway

     
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    cbee    July 26, 2010  

    I may have a large rhinestone barrette, or fresh flowers.

     
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    LpCutiPie    July 3, 2010   Central Florida

    I did the flower route too but with a sparkly pink flower hair clip and think it worked out pretty well. My mom is bringin me some of the pics she took tomorrow (still waiting on pro pics) so I'll try to post one for reference.

     
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    heatherkristin    April 5, 2011   Ca

    i will not be wearing a veil either!! this is the only thing i knew about my future wedding day years before I even met FI!!

     
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    CheesetomyWhine    10/30/10   Rhode Island

    I don't think I will be wearing a veil because I want to be able to show off my lovely hair-do! I think it'd take away from it. For reference, I am getting married in a church.

     
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    MrsBridges    December 29, 2010  

    I'm not planning to - my dress is red and a red veil would just be too much! 

     
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    MrsBridges    December 29, 2010  

    I'm not planning to - my dress is red and a red veil would just be too much! 

     
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    shaunna    October 9, 2011   UK

    I don't want a veil but I also don't want a flower. Maybe hair pins...

     
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    ms.pascua    June 25, 2010   Los Angeles, CA

    I went veil-less as welll...a veil just seemed like too much for my look:

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    mishelleez    November 5, 2010   DW- Bahamas

    Im not wearing a veil. We're getting married on the beach so i figured it could blow around etc so I didnt even try any on.

     
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    I didn't wear one and I think you're fine not wearing one either!! I wore a little wreath of flowers, which isn't for everyone but I think any type of flower clip is pretty...You could ask your florist to make you a fresh one, which is always nice :)

     
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    littlemissmoo    July 18, 2010   London, UK

    I wore a large feathery fascinator. But I didn't have a big church wedding.

     
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    husky    October 2, 2010   Denver

    @Mrs. DG: Oooh, I love your dress!

     
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    ritsi_bitsi    May 2011   Canada

    I'm not wearing a veil because I don't want to draw attention away from my pretty cap sleeves!  I'll be wearing a flowery hair fascinator instead.

     
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    KLP2010    October 30, 2010  

    I just sent you a PM - I shot a Nuptial Mass last weekend where the bride only wore a birdcage. It totally works! There's a link to images in the PM :-)

     
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    beckiesue    April 16, 2011   Colorado

    @Mrs. DG: What dress is that?! I love it!!!!

     

    I am not wearing a veil either. I will do a flower, or something sparkly!!

     
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    andyandsami    December 31, 2010   pittsburgh

    no veil!  Sparkly headband from davids bridal :)

     
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    PennyDreadful    September 25, 2010   Northern VA

    I'm not wearing a veil either.

    I tried one on with my dress and I thought I looked ridiculous.

    Very "bridal" yes.

    But well Penny looked kinda dreadful and felt kinda foolish ;-)

     

    I'm thinking of some sort of flowery thing at this point.

     
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    Pwitty    August 6, 2011   Michigan

    no veil for me either - we havent decided 100% on a ceremony site, but are leaning towards a church ceremony.  My next problem is that I really like fascinators, headbands, flowers, etc on others, but i feel a bit silly in those too, so my head/hair may just be pretty plain overall~

     
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    reneeheartssam    January 15, 2011   New Zealand

    I have been humming and haaing on the veil and have decided to go without, am wearing this Vera Wang comb in my hair and will have it all up and think I will be more comfortable without a veil!

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    msmarathon    June 25, 2011   Knoxville, TN

    I'm getting married in a church and I'm not wearing a veil!  I don't like the symbolism of the veil, and FI thinks (no offense to anyone) that they look pretty silly.

     
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    SweetAdelineXO    June 5, 2010   NJ

    Veil-less

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    bellakitty    October 2, 2010   Western Mass

    I am not wearing a veil either.  Our ceremony is taking place in a historical church but is not a religious ceremony.  Sounds kind of funny but that is how we roll LOL.

    There are so many beautiful options for headpieces these days that I don't think a veil seems necessary...even for a formal church ceremony.  My advice is go with what makes you feel like the most beautiful version of yourself. Who knows, maybe you'll try on a veil and fall in love!  Best of luck to you!

    Here is a picture of my fascinator. 

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    Loribeth    December 1, 2010   Michigan (Married in Savannah, GA)

    I haven't found anything for my hair yet, but I know I don't want to wear a veil. I'm thinking about stringing some pearls in my hair and I have a pair of vintage earrings that I want to put in my hair also.

     

     
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    alligatress    October 10, 2010   NY

    No veil for me, but I will be using Fuschia orchids in my hair.

     
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    Amaryllis    July 2, 2011  

    @Mrs. DG: I think this is the first time I've seen your wedding pic! You were (are!) gorgeous!

    @ms.pascua: I saw you were back and I was waiting for a wedding recap! Let me know if I missed it -- I'd love to see the rest of your pics since this one is so beautiful!

    I was the exact opposite -- I went into the wedding process fairly certain that I was not interested in a veil, just an added expense and more frilly than I consider myself. But then I put one on, just to humor the saleslady and... I felt like a bride! I had more of a moment with the veil (that I didn't buy) than with the dress (that I bought). I kick myself sometimes! So, I think it is completely understandable that you could try one on and just confirm that you don't want one! You gave them a chance and found they are definitely not for you! No big deal. Sometimes you just have to put something on to know how you'll really feel about it. I love the suggestions for flowers or barrettes. You will be a glowing bride, as long as you are comfortable in what you pick!

     
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    Woobster    September 18, 2010  

    No veil for me either!  My dress has a large flower on it... When I ordered my dress, I ordered an extra flower for my hair.  I'm just not a veil girl!

     
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    Ms Mini    July 17, 2010   Medicine Hat, AB

    I did wear a veil for the actual ceremony and family pictures (it was my moms veil and it was really important to her that I wear it ...) but the vast majority of the time I was veil-less!

     
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    AllynK43    October 9, 2010   Knoxville, Tennessee

    I must have tried on two dozen veils at different stores at different times and I always felt stupid in a veil.  I am just doing a huge flower with netting and crystals.  Love it!  I'm Catholic and I would say it's about half and half brides who wear traditional veils and those that don't

     

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